Sooner or later the sharpness of feelings becomes dull, their brightness grows dull, and there comes the moment when in soul there is no nothing left except indifference. Many couples can long exist in such state, some disperse and begin to look for fresh feelings. But also the new relations can end with the same if not to understand what the cooling reason.
The most common cause of the fact that feelings leave is a stagnation, lack of development and advances. If one partner aspires to something bigger, and the second "brakes" him, such relations will naturally come to the end. For example, the woman makes plans for improvement of living conditions of family, wants to become pregnant, and the man does not understand why it is necessary, to it and it is so good. In this case the partner will leave him alone soon and will find the person who is not so inert. Arises at all not less situations when the man wants to get an education and to achieve certain heights, and the partner belittles it persistent requests to be content with what has. Therefore if you felt that feelings in your couple lose heat of passion, analyze development of your relations. Having found out that you are afraid new and novel, talk to the partner and tell frankly about the fears. In the course of the conversation the close people will be able always to resolve even the most difficult questions if both have such desire. As a result and your feelings will come to higher step of development. Do not calm down on reached, the love demands continued support and feed. Do not put life above your relations. If at one of spouses deeply after midnight the crazy thought was born, to get into the car and to go to cinema to a night session of non-feet, support darling. No matter, that in a sink the mountain of ware waits for you, the husband for certain will help you with cleaning! And, kind of you were tired at work, have a talk with the wife behind evening tea, tell about events of day. And most it will become easier for you, you will get a part of cargo off the back, having divided it from darling. And the spouse will endow you with caress and tenderness in response to your trust and frankness. Evening can end much more pleasantly, than you expected. If you sincerely communicate every day, feelings will not leave your couple. A conclusion develops such: the love leaves those people who do not try to hold it. If the man and the woman want to keep the feelings and appreciate them, they will take care of that the passion only inflamed, and tenderness overflowed their hearts.