Already for a long time there is such myth that the power of passion defines whether young people can marry or not. Speaking in a different way, the beginning of happy family life depends on mad passion of young people. But here this statement is right or not, it is worth checking.
Instruction
1. If young people think, the more they will feel passion to each other, the stronger there will be their family, they are deeply mistaken. The passion this coming and leaving feeling which in a moment appears and also in a moment disappears. If the relations begin with passion, business very seldom reaches creation of full-fledged happy family. The ardency and passion overboil, and sometimes further at the former lover any desire vanishes is with any given person. And this phenomenon is present no explanation.
2. In Christianity passion call inability to control the feelings and desires. Under the influence of passion of people can make rash actions which can sadly end. Psychologists claim that the mad passion is the first sign of the unhealthy relations. It does not say that between the husband and the wife there should not be a passion. The passion has to be, it - one of love components. However it is necessary to watch that the passion did not become the basis and the base of marriage. Otherwise, as hastily the relations will be constructed, and will collapse. In spite of the fact that in love it is obligatory to eat passion, the converse cannot be made. Desire can exist and independently, without any other warm feelings. Feeling passion for the person, it is impossible to be sure of the love for it.
3. Definition of this feeling says that the passion is a disease which suddenly rises huge waves and splashes and also unexpectedly falls and vanishes. The relations constructed only on passion will not be quiet and balanced. Couple having feeling of mad desire of each other will constantly endure the conflicts and quarrels based on jealousy and mutual claims. Further such relations, most often, come to an end with scandals and gaps. If you want to start a strong family, once and forever, do not rely on passion. The strongest relations are under construction on friendship which in a consequence develops into love. Darling is not a subject of worship and adoration, and the friend whom you love very much and with whom want to live for the rest of the life!