At the beginning of the relations the love seems resistant and ardent, but there passes time, feelings grow cold, the passion ceases and it seems that the love left. But you should not be so categorical and to put an end to the relations, at first it is necessary to understand your relations and to understand where the love left.
Instruction
1. In the first several months of the relations the partners excessively idealize the half. Close eyes to shortcomings, and advantages extol to an ideal. Sometimes by the image qualities which the person does not possess at all are attributed. In addition, there is a popular belief that darling will be able to change for the sake of love, but it seldom occurs that too spoils the relations.
2. After a while the veil from eyes falls down and the real person appears at a look, from shortcomings which irritate and disperse from image of the beloved. At first can seem that the partner all this time pretended to be, tried to deceive you, hid the shortcomings, but actually you just closed eyes to negative points. Most likely at this time he endures the same opening and surprise therefore you need not to push away each other, and to rally for overcoming crisis in the relations.
3. When couple begins to live together, the relations endure one more blow – constant presence of each other and even more unexpected disappointments. After the unlucky working day the men do not have forces on romanticism, surprises, compliments, and flowers already a rarity are less often heard. Women cease to apply cosmetics, walk in beautiful clothes comfortable not always, often there are quarrels on the household soil, and sex is more often postponed the next day.
4. Life causes discord between lovers. Disputes because of household chores, the disorder, unwillingness to help and constant fatigue distance and spoil the relations. The irritation, mutual claims because of what romantic feelings evaporate collects, and alienation appears. It is very important to undergo this crisis of the relations, to learn to see each other real and to accept as is. Do not try to replace the partner, work on these relations better.
5. The love needs to be supported, especially when you begin to live together. You should not relax and consider the elect won. Pay attention to the half, care, look after it and try to be pleasant. Learn to talk and discuss all arising problems. Without quarrels and insults discuss the difficult moments, look for an exit through joint efforts. Only this way you will be able to keep feelings and the happy relations.