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It would seem, such time … free now that no problems in this sphere can be. And it turns out – on the contrary. Only it is worse. Earlier, for example, on a ball the girl could refuse to the man dance only in two cases: it is not presented to her; she already promised this dance to another. It is easy to correct the first, there for certain there are people who know both (at least owners, the truth?), they will also present the guy and the girl each other. And in the second case it is necessary to ask other dance which is still free.
Here where it is better to get acquainted with the girl for the frivolous relations, clearly at once. There are many places, and all know them. The Internet or club quite approach. And for serious?
Where it is possible to get acquainted with the serious girl on the Internet?
Probably, the social network is more preferable than a dating site. Here already you foreknow something about the girl, about her interests, hobbies. Here many its photos, and not one, corrected by the photoshop can be posted. Here and she can learn something on the guy's page. And it is simpler to get acquainted on the Internet, of course: it is not visible how you redden, it is not heard as you stammer from confusion. Then, at a personal meeting, it is possible to understand: or not that.
The same Internet is filled by a valuable advice as it is beautiful to get acquainted with the girl. But in case interest the serious relations, nevertheless the main thing is not simply to make an impression, and to interest in the personality. Only then the girl will want to communicate. And the excessive extravagance can frighten off the stranger. As well as excessive chic.
Where still if not on the Internet, it is possible to get acquainted with the girl for the serious relations? In the street? As a last resort, will fit. Really, in the crowded place where there is both an illusion of presence of people, and illusion of absence at once (to them is not present to another matter), the girl will not be frightened, and will quietly behave. But … to chat chatted, and she did not give phone and did not come to a meeting. Also you will never find it any more. Unless – destiny such. But it is possible to try? All were once sent away. Some even like to send away sharply especially nice guy to show: "I am not such silly woman as those which are wild about such handsome men".
How it is better to get acquainted with the girl?
To approach in the crowded place, but not in the car (on the escalator, in the hall): not all like to get acquainted on the stage when all stare. To ask a neutral question. To tell something pleasant. In general, it is better to talk, report a little at first something about himself, to put a little itself in a dependency (that she ceased to be afraid): "And I for the first time in this area, know nothing here. Thank you that you prompted to me, I long would not find …". And already then, when she will decide that the guy nice and not the maniac, it is possible to be presented. Polite people at first call themselves, and then are interested in a name of the interlocutor. It makes more pleasant impression and it is more difficult not to answer a question of a name if the interlocutor was already presented.
And generally, there are no doubts that it is better to get acquainted in the company. Or at least in club on interests (dog breeders, for example, or rollers). Then it is already precisely known that there is common ground and the relations can be serious.
But all councils how to get acquainted with the girl, mean nothing, its majesty Sluchay will not interfere yet. It is possible to get acquainted with the future wife, having suddenly fallen down in a pool to her under legs, having filled in with dirty water and itself, and the girl enraged because of awkwardness. And it is possible and not to make in a tuxedo impressions, despite charm, deep intelligence and fine manners.
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