Some girls show passivity in an issue of acquaintance to representatives of an opposite sex, expecting that the fatal meeting will take place in itself or from an initiative of the young man. Such tactics sometimes yields quite good results, but if pleasant acquaintance everything does not happen, it is better to take the initiative.
There is a number of places in which easily and it is just possible to start acquaintance to the pleasant man. The first and most obvious place is your work. Try to look narrowly at colleagues at work. Daily communication allows to reveal all positive and negative sides of the candidate, and joint service gives the chance to draw attention to itself, using any pretext concerning execution of your official duties.
You should not ignore any actions invitations of friends. A birthday, a wedding, a campaign on the nature are cheerful events which dispose to easy communication and little flirtation.
Similar actions often lead to new acquaintances as a conversation with strangers in such relaxed atmosphere it is much simpler than a message, than in any other place.
Sports clubs and the fitness centers are always full of the brought-up, strong and watching over the health guys. During the training it is easily possible to ask the help or council for the pleasant young man, and in the form of gratitude for the rendered service, to suggest to drink on a tea cup after classes. Various exhibitions, seminars and excursions are the quite good place to start pleasant acquaintance too.
However you should consider their subject: the exhibition of violets or a seminar on cookery will hardly attract many guys.
The cafe, bars and night clubs are simply created for acquaintances. Besides many guys come there too with the purpose to get acquainted. Here total freedom of actions: it is possible just to make eyes, and it is possible to invite to a ladies' choice dance or to treat with cocktail of the attracted young man.
During acquaintance to the man the girl should not hesitate. Very few people will like the girl reddening and stammering on each word. But also the vulgar behavior can frighten off the guy. So, it is worth choosing golden mean: to leave false modesty, but not to lose natural femininity. The first impression decisive becomes frequent, and acquaintance duration will depend on it in many respects. The appearance is very important, many men are visual. If the decision to actively look for the soulmate is made, previously it is worth putting the appearance in order. The fashionable hairstyle, beautiful manicure, an accurate make-up and the clothes which are favourably emphasizing figure advantages will be as it is impossible by the way at the first meeting.