Different people have various opinion on unfaithfulness. Some are able to forgive treachery of darling, others categorically against such behavior, the third quite indulgently treat incorrectness and even stand up for the free relations.
It is possible to forgive
There are different life situations. Sometimes it is possible to forgive treason, in other case it is better to release the traitor wherever one wishes. Only to the woman to decide how to behave after treachery of her partner. It is necessary to consider all circumstances, to weigh all pros and cons and only then to make the correct decision.
Happens that the man decides on treason under the influence of alcohol. If it happened to your young man only once, maybe, he should be forgiven and accepted. If the guy very much regrets, and earlier you did not notice behind him not that attempts to go on the left, but even views towards other women. Drunk men and women sometimes make grandiose mistakes. After plentiful libations the consciousness is confused, the ability to critically estimate own actions decreases. Consider it when you judge the guy. If you decide to forgive him, take a promise from now on to be extremely careful with alcoholic drinks.
The young man can go for treason if in his relations not everything is smooth. For example, if at you are not present there was intim about a year, the guy can just decide with despair on treachery. Of course, it is not the best way to solve problems between partners, but the man in this case can be understood. If his mistress was a girl on time, and he to her has no feelings, the man should be forgiven.
You should not forgive
At the same time there are situations when treason you do not forgive. If your partner repeatedly had a bit on the side, most likely, the polygamy got the best of his feelings, or he just does not love you, does not appreciate and does not respect. To forgive such man and to wait that he will change, there is no sense. The relations in this case are unpromising what to you was promised by the man. If you learned that your young man has an intimacy on the party already very long time with the same girl, it too you should not forgive. Such double life is the real treachery. The person whom you love to which you trust deceived you, used, plaid the hypocrite every day. Have pride and you drive such guy of wons. Some women forgive men's unfaithfulness and suffer treachery from their party because of diffidence. Such girls are afraid that there will be some if leave the incorrect partner. Perhaps, some vital circumstances develop in such a way that the woman gets to some dependence on the man, for example, material. For the sake of wellbeing or because of fear of loneliness it is not necessary to suffer unfaithfulness. Further your life will become only it is worse, remember it. Make one effort and leave the apostate. Trust in own forces. You will be able to begin new, happy life.