Sooner or later even in the strongest family relations runs a chill. The first that occurs, you are changed by your spouse. You begin to look for signs of incorrectness and to confirm suspicions one way or another – to look through SMS messages in phone, to visit its page on social networks, etc. But whether it is necessary to ask the husband's friends about his treason?
Naturally, you can call friends and the husband's friends. You have the right even to meet them and to ask that they know of that whom your spouse on the party meets. However it is it is unlikely the best way of clarification of the truth.
First, the probability that the true friend of the husband will tell you as actually the situation is is equal to nearly zero. The friend will begin to protect "idler" and will find hundreds of the arguments capable to lull yours into a false sense of security.
Secondly, you can turn into a general laughing-stock if the so-called friend does not begin to keep the mouth shut, and will tell all your mutual friends about your call or a meeting with you. Thirdly, you can find out in general nothing if your husband changes, but behaves extremely carefully and does not tell friends about the adventures. Anyway your spouse will be warned about your detective investigation and for certain will make house scandal. And, if does not begin to row, then will become isolated even more.
In an anger rush we are not always capable to control the actions. There are not enough forces for prudence – call! Also be that will be! Let your husband will be angry, having learned about your contacts with his friends. Let behind your back will be whispered, and the competitor to exult. You were honest with yourself. You had exactly so many forces to behave quite so, but not differently. You do not blame yourself then for this call. It became easier for you, and this is importantand this is importantand this is important! If you decided on a call to the friend or a meeting with it, try not to ask direct questions. It will not lead to clarification of the truth. Show female insidiousness. In a roundabout way try to create a picture really happening. For example, your spouse returned and told that he was in a business trip. Ask the friend whether cognac which your blessed brought to it as a gift was pleasant to him. Ask questions unexpected which will throw the interlocutor into confusion and will give its lies.
Your suspicions finally can be confirmed or vanish. And then you will make decisions in compliance with the character and a situation too. Always it is necessary to remember one wise saying "You will want to spoil the relations – begin to find out them".