The celebration of a wedding demands considerable money. At the same time many couples are not sure whether they want to see a great number of unfamiliar relatives on the wedding and doubt whether it is necessary to celebrate this event in general.
Modern couples usually already have experience of cohabitation prior to a wedding, and celebration of the beginning of family life lost the major importance. Earlier the bride married innocent. The wedding symbolized the introduction of the girl in a new state and also transition from the fatherlike house to family of the husband. Today the wedding became an occasion to gather friends and relatives.
Costs of a wedding
First of all, analyze your financial state. The young family needs the certain apartment, the car, savings for future children. Even the most modest wedding will cost young people in the considerable sum. Estimate, it is how expedient to allocate money for the celebration of a wedding. Perhaps, it is better to spend funds for the things necessary for further joint life.
The part of expenses on a wedding is covered at the expense of gifts of guests. Usually invited give newly married household appliances, home decoration or money. But do not expect that all your cost will be covered. The cost of the majority of weddings repeatedly surpasses the prices of the received gifts.
Traditional wedding or small holiday
More often young people prefer not to organize a traditional wedding, and undersign and go to a honeymoon trip. The saved means allow to organize unforgettable vacation, and newlyweds have bright impressions for the rest of life. Traditionally the celebration of a wedding consists of driving on the city on the car, a photoshoot and feasts. Relatives some of which young people never saw are invited to celebration. Think, you would like such wedding or you imagine a wedding differently. Talk to your second half. Perhaps, someone from you always dreamed of a magnificent wedding and will regret that he refused celebration. In that case you can offer more budgetary option. Think, you would like to share the joy with others. If the wedding is of great importance for you, you can celebrate this event together, it is, first of all, your holiday. For parents marriage from children also important incident. Perhaps, you decide to celebrate this event together with them. Some couples would like to have fun in a narrow circle close friends. It allows to spend a holiday really easily and sincerely, at the same time without special expenses. Newly married sometimes organize magnificent celebrations, film it and take the mass of the picture for memory. But not everyone revises further movies and a photo. If you decided to celebrate a wedding, plan it so that the pleasant moments, but not suffered expenditure were remembered.