If you are happy parents of the girl, then you have to do not by hearsay know that each of them dreams to exist most beautifully. And you, of course, remind her that she is a beauty, nearly every day. But whether you thought that it can lead to troubles?
Is to people with beautiful appearance and well put figure on this planet seemingly easier, than that to whom the nature was not so generous. However in practice leaves that it yet not the most important, and in life it is necessary to know a lot what and to be able to survive. When the child grows up, to his appearance there are big changes, and still a yesterday's swan, maybe, as it is offensive, will turn into an ordinary gray duckling. And if the girl taught to rely only on the beautiful face, then in life she will be waited by some difficulties and sufferings.
Of course, it can manage to find good work, to find the prince and even to marry him. But as soon as its beauty will begin to grow dim, it will become clear that behind this beauty only emptiness.
Nobody will begin to argue that the girl needs to be able to care for the appearance. But you should not be obsessed with it. You do not want to receive in a couple of years the whimsical queen with a star fever?
It is possible to give compliments concerning appearance and it is even necessary - to those girls at whom with appearance everything is all right, just they are not sure of themselves. After all, when the young beauty will mature, she will be convinced of truthfulness of your words, but at the same time will not gain such bad qualities as narcissism or vanity.
And if the girl nevertheless has small problems with appearance, mother should teach her to adjust them. It is necessary to let know to the child that it is not shortcomings, but features. Small shramik in the form of an asterisk, or this hated birthmark, such more no, there is nobody. And it is tremendous that all people on the planet different. Cite as an example beautiful, but at the same time clever and successful women who used, or enjoy now, mad popularity though they never fitted into the existing beauty ideals. It is especially necessary to be convinced that the girl does not involve to herself excess attention from outside of adult men. Tell her that clothes and a make-up have to be appropriate and approach a case.
Long legs and high growth could be accidentally presented to any of us by whimsical destiny. And here the ukhozhennost, good manners and education, sense of humour, ability to impose a make-up and good taste - all this is reached at a pomoshchiya of strong will and strong character.