Modern people have much more opportunities for communication, than their not really far ancestors in the last centuries. It happens even so that by means of the latest technical means (like the Internet) learn about each other men and women from the different ends of the world, and between them there are warm feelings and aspiration to continue the relations. Something acceptable will turn out for such "love at distance" or it is worth weeding its fragile sprouts at once?
Whether the distance an obstacle for love can become
Question of a possibility of the existence of love when both participants of such relations are divided by many kilometers, more philosophical, than practical. In this case everything mostly depends on specific circumstances and on actions of both lovers.
Certainly, the relations of this kind can arise in various situations. Happens that the couple got acquainted on social networks, on the website for lonely or on other similar virtual resource. All their joint "property" often consists in correspondence, demonstration each other of pictures, but at the same time outside the Internet reality they did not meet.
In that case each of them will have more tendency to idealization of another. Besides, for them the risk is high to fall in love with thought up, but not with a real image of the vis-a-vis. Also absolutely nobody will give guarantees that at least one person in such couple is not the swindler for the sake of some not noble purpose "treating" the girlfriend/pen friend with the invented story. Anyway, the virtual acquaintance - before beginning to plan the joint future and to live similar in a fool's paradise, - it is necessary to meet at least once out of virtual space. Such appointment (and it is better - a little) will allow to draw certain conclusions: whether really their relations cost something or to two of them never to get on. If relevant is the first option then it will be necessary to make decisions on the translation of love from the Internet in real life. Sometimes, that scenario of development of the relations a bit different. Acquaintance of a couple happened on vacation, in a business trip, etc. - a word, it was internal, but not virtual. To them it was good together, but joint time has cometime has come to an end, and everyone should come back to the cities, to already settled life. Whether the relations in such conditions will survive?
How to keep feelings, being far from darling
For a start two should talk frankly and to recognize whether really both of them consider that between them a little serious feelings, or it was just entertainment for the period of the holiday/business trip. In the first case not a sin to exchange contact information and to continue intensive communication, even staying in the distance from each other. It is also important to both lovers to understand: the distance - really serious hindrance for their feelings, especially so far those still too fragile, is also unknown whether they will develop in something more stable and strong. Therefore if everyone in couple really dreams of the joint future, they will need to put a lot of effort for preservation of love and sometimes even to go on some victims. First of all, they should use each opportunity for full communication. It is better to do it not by phone or e-mail, and on Skype or through other similar programs where there is an opportunity to connect the webcam and to see each other. In that case they will manage to fill the need for visual contact to some extent. Also for them it is important to be involved in each other life to the maximum. Here any trifle will matter. It is worth remembering dates, important for darling/darling, events, up to Birthdays of his / her small fish, a kitty or doggie. Good memory in the matter will only promote bigger rapprochement of couple and strengthening of their relations. It is necessary to use any opportunity to meet. One appointment on value exceeds one hundred talk on Skype and thousands of electronic messages. It is worth spending joint time as it is possible more productively. How exactly - couple solves. The main thing - that each of them received the necessary emotional charge from communication and knew another better. At the same time you should not avoid small quarrels. Yes, it is not necessary to clash with a rough showdown, and here visualization of existing disagreements is much better, than attempt to become silent those things in which lovers are discordant with each other. In the second case both just silently will save offense at each other, and in the first - at successful overcoming "disagreements" - will become even more native and closer. If to follow above-mentioned simple recommendations, at distance to keep the relations quite perhaps. Moreover - they will have a real chance to be transformed to something fine and lasting for many years.