Men have different education. Some since the childhood were accustomed that it is necessary to be respectful to women, and the respect for girls, unfortunately, is alien to others.
Why men begin to offend and humiliate women?
Whether it is possible to offend the woman? The matter unconditionally has the negative answer. But, unfortunately, in many situations there is other. So, for example, in some families, over time everything becomes not such ideal as it seemed earlier. Disclosure in the course of joint life of characters causes some conflicts, scandals, and in especially sharp cases of insult of the personality and a fight. If at some point your husband flew into a rage and offended you, it is necessary to try to forgive him and to try to forget about this situation. But what to do if such incidents continue day from day? Whether to forgive all or to put the fat end to the relations? Try to estimate your relations with the spouse and to look at them from the stranger's position. Perhaps, the insults he tries to re-educate the wife with too quiet and peaceful character. Can its acts - it is an anger attack, and he does not like the fact that the wife cannot defend the opinion.
But such severe method of re-education obviously says that the man has no respect for the spouse and, perhaps, does not love it.
Often similar situations occur under the influence of alcohol or when the husband is too quick-tempered. If the reason in the first, at the initial stage of the husband still it is possible to save and to prevent his hobby for alcohol further. But if alcoholism became a way of life of your elect, it is better for you "to run" from it far away. Such person will hardly improve, and problems in such family will be over time only more.
If the man offends you in rage attacks, try not to aggravate a situation and it is quiet to understand everything, let's it "cool down".
What consequences arise as a result
Constant insults strongly affect nervous system. The woman becomes weak, defenseless and timid. Constant stresses will lead to an inferiority complex. Not all women are capable to stand in such situations for themselves and to give the worthy answer to insults or in general to leave, having slammed the door. Try to stop all mockeries and insults in the party. In a quiet situation discuss this problem with the husband, tell him about the experiences and fears. If not everything is hopeless, most likely, your relations will be improved. But if the husband does not manage to be re-educated, and he continues to show to you the aggression, just it is better for you to leave him. It is unlikely its relation to you to be improved. You build the destiny, and hardly in your plans for the future there are such negative points.