Some guys sometimes fall in love with girls who already consist in the relations with other men. Then men think of whether it is worth looking after an object of the adoration or it is better to leave this invention.
Whether it is necessary to show an affection to the girl who has a guy?
If you fell in love with the girl who already consists in the relations, first of all you have to understand what feelings reign in this couple. Ask at your mutual friends about whether your beloved with the young man is happy or not. Perhaps, they together only because it is so convenient to them. Some girls, meeting guys, do not feel happy, but also cannot break link as already became attached to the partner or feel pity for him.
If you know that lovers warmly belong to each other, they make joint plans for the future and do not pay attention to anybody, a coma them two, it is hardly worth spoiling others life and to interfere in their relations. First, you for certain will be left with nothing, and secondly, you can cause discord in happy couple.
If people around say to you that the relations between your beloved and her man not too strong and are not filled with harmony and deep mutual feelings, you can quite begin to look after her.
How to arrive if you are in love with the girl who has a guy?
When you were convinced that couple already is on the verge of a gap, and their relations reached a deadlock, you can arrive as a real man and inform the partner of the beloved that you are going to look after his girl. Make an appointment to this man and explain him the feelings and intentions. It is unlikely you get its approval, but will be sure that you did not arrive meanly and did not begin to act at it behind the back. After that try to talk to the girl who is pleasant to you. Admit to her the love and tell that you want to try to obtain it. Now you will need only to look at its reaction. The decent woman for certain will tell you that it consists in the relations, but it is important to you to listen not that she speaks, and to look at how she does it. Perhaps, she will begin to redden and be confused, saying soft "no" which can quite serve you as a signal to actions. If the refusal sounded firmly and categorically, you should not look after the busy girl. Most likely, your acquaintances gave you false information, and your beloved really sincerely treats the guy and is not going to be exchanged. Just release it and wish it good luck, believing that sometime you after all will meet the true and mutual love.