Adulteries were blamed at all times, especially strictly belonged to unfaithfulness from women. Today the situation changed a little: men look for faithful wives, and treason can become the real blow
Fidelity in marriage – natural aspiration of the person or a stereotype?
From time immemorial, marrying, spouses swore each other an oath to fidelity. In the Christian Bible and also in sacred books of other religions there are accurate instructions on the fact that the husband and the wife have to be loyal each other. Adultery for the believing people – a grave sin. However with approach of sexual revolution, distribution of contraception and safe sex the views of people of marital fidelity changed a little. For treason do not beat with lashes any more and do not drive out from the house. It is quite often possible even to hear opinion that all each other change, and in it there is nothing terrible. There were such concepts as physical and spiritual treason that physical treason, namely – sex without love, means nothing. Really, the marital fidelity is a remnant of the past?
In fact what to us was imposed by supporters of free love, the fidelity in marriage is a natural aspiration of the person, and betrayal of the wife or husband – absolutely abnormal behavior. The loving person will never be able quietly to accept treason of the soulmate. Equally, as well as the person who is happy in marriage sincerely loves and is satisfied in the sexual plan, will not begin to look on the left. Exceptions are made only by people whose sexual dissoluteness is beyond normality.
Betrayal of the wife – blow below the belt
The marital fidelity was honored at all times whereas unfaithfulness was strictly blamed. However always treated unfaithfulness of men less strictly if betrayal of the wife took place, such behavior could cost it life. Today, of course, adulteresses are not executed and not put in prison, but here cases when the man beat or even killed the wife, having learned about treason, happen also in our civilized world. As practice shows, it is simpler to woman to endure treason of the husband. Betrayal of the wife can wound the man for the rest of life. Men regard it as blow below the belt and treachery. Many begin to doubt the male full value, time the wife went on the left, so it lacks something in the sexual plan. Whether the faithful wife is necessary to the man? Of course, it is necessary. Any normal man will not want to live with the idle woman. The marital fidelity is that stone on which all family life is under construction. Calmly only the person who does not love can treat unfaithfulness of the soulmate or itself wishes to look love on the party. If you are not ready to have sex with one person and to be loyal to it, so and sense to marry is not present.