Cohabitation of the man and woman imposes on both some obligations. For example, payment of housing, purchase of products and things for the house becomes care both. And that there were no disagreements, it is necessary to discuss features of creation of the general budget.
There are no special norms and rules which regulate expenditure of civil spouses, in each family there are rules. That there were no disagreements, it is necessary to think of it before meeting, and then time in half a year to discuss everything again as situations can change and life imposes amendments.
Total costs
At joint life there are expenditure which are relevant for both. To pay housing, rent or a rent it is necessary monthly. Also it is possible to put budgets for this purpose, it is possible to alternate payment or to transfer it to shoulders of one of spouses. Sometimes the man undertakes obligations for the maintenance of the house as it has an opportunity to receive more. What way to choose, solve.
Obligatory purchases are products and objects for the house and life. Each family in own way plans these acquisitions. Still maintenance will be necessary, in the house nothing is eternal. As on it to distribute money, it is necessary to discuss. And results have to suit both parties. It is necessary to provide the income of each partner, other expenditure which are necessary for the personality and also further plans and savings.
If the man does not give money
If the man refuses to pay any expenses, it is necessary to talk to him. In a civil marriage it is not always possible to demand funds for a new fur coat or the car, buy the Dress or boots it can, but at own will, and here should not refuse payment of housing. Tell that it is difficult to you to buy independently some things that its help is necessary. Present him with a fait accompli the unpaid accounts and ask whether it will contribute to the solution of these questions. It is not necessary to shout at the man and to make a claim, it is enough to tell quietly and to hear his answer. Usually the partner reasons the position, explains a cause of failure. Hear these words, in them usually there is a lot of important. If it has any difficulties with earnings, support him. It is possible to make concessions and to agree to pay something personally, but it is important to understand what so will be not always.
Minuses of a civil marriage
The civil marriage does not protect spouses from material problems. In case of parting it will even be difficult to divide property through court as the union was not registered. You will not be able to make a complaint for the fact that he did not pay housing or did not give money for products. The informality of the relations means the solution of these difficulties independently. But also the registered marriage does not mean that the man is obliged to support the woman. There are options when budgets separate, everyone lives on the money and does not apply for the income of another. Therefore it is possible to resolve any financial issues only in dialogue.