Today at distance to surprise nobody with the relations, it is not new at all, but for many it seems unreal, beyond understanding of society. Some people consider that the relations at distance are initially doomed to a failure, and others that such relations take place to be, and moreover they consider that the distance brings together. But such relations, as well as at usual, have subtleties and difficulties.
For maintenance of the relations at distance the accurate communication is crucial. Both partners have to understand that the distance does not mean the automatic termination of the relations. If you, really, want to keep them, there are many means of communication: phone, Internet, e-mail or romantic letters. Every time when you together, surely try to show the love, to let know to the partner that it is necessary to you, you appreciate it and value it.
In separation you will be able to derive strength and confidence for the next meeting from these joint moments. Here you will see that the meeting after long separation will seem to you as a sweet dream. Accurate communication with expression of feelings, requirements, thoughts, desires, hopes and fears is a basis of all relations, and for the relations at distance is even more important detail of the relations.
The trust is the best and, one may say, the only protection of the relations against incorrectness. In the functioning relations the partners are honest with each other, and constantly think out new creative ways to enrich and strengthen the relations. Do not hesitate to speak about the feelings, it is important to express negative emotions also. On the other hand, if the majority of your meetings are adjusted only negatively, it is a warning signal that the relations cease to function and are doomed to a failure.
For the dysfunctional relations the lack of the general thoughts, feelings and requirements is characteristic. Between partners outstanding promises collect, contact frequency decreases, they do not know what with each other to speak about, and sometimes partners accumulate rage and offense at each other because of not a realizovannost of the relations. In that case at distance it is expedient to reconsider the relations once again.