The relations between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law - a favourite subject for jokes. And the conflicts between these two people well do not promote the world and wellbeing in family in any way. How to solve this problem?
Tranquility of your family is the main motive for attempt to improve the relations with the mother-in-law, both your wellbeing, and wellbeing of your wife and her mother is staked. And the most important that it is not so difficult to find a common language with the mother-in-law.
Try to listen
There is nothing strange that people of the senior generation try to learn youth. Even if councils of the mother-in-law seem to you more than silly, all the same listen to them extremely attentively and seriously. Do not interrupt, you do not shout that you, all the same, will make everything in own way. It is possible to agree with it and to make everything as you want. And here if you agree in opinions, then the problem will be almost solved, do not forget about it.
Show interest
It is worth being interested in health of mother of your wife sometimes. To periodically ask, how her affairs. It is necessary to pay her slightly more attention, and she will notice it at once and the attitude towards you will gradually be changed. But, of course, not at once.
Mother-in-law too woman
Do you indulge sometimes the spouse? And do not forget about the mother-in-law. Please her in usual day, present flowers or a box of candies. You, probably, remember her only on a birthday or for March eighth. All know that it is madly pleasant - to receive gifts without cause. So if you bear to the wife a bouquet, work also to the mother-in-law to please. It will please her, though to a look she, quite perhaps, will not give.
Devote it in plans, your with the spouse
It is absolutely optional to tell the mother-in-law about all your affairs, but sometimes it is worth sharing plans nevertheless. Mother will understand that you make contact. It is interesting to her how you look after her daughter and it, of course, there is a wish to know whether well with you is to her krovinochka.
Without jealousy
Even if it seems to you that the wife spends too much time with mother, you should not worry. Your mother-in-law - the closest relative for your wife. Just explain to the spouse that it does not suit you, without making at the same time rows.
Do not abuse the wife
At mother darling needs to be praised only even if at present she not really deserves it. It is better to express the discontent to the wife alone, and to here tell to the mother-in-law that her daughter is the best culinary specialist on the planet - so always please. Such talk will do good to all.