Verses, novels and plays are at first sight written about love, films are shot. At first sight the best-known lovers in the world literature – Romeo and Juliette fell in love with each other. However, in real life everything occurs a little differently.
Instruction
1. Usually people love each other when between them there is a spiritual community. They have similar outlooks on life, interests and hobbies, society of each other is pleasant to them, they want to enjoy meetings and communication as much as possible. As for love at first sight, it arises to the one who is seen for the first time, and the loved one it is impossible to call him in any way.
2. The love at first sight, of course, is possible, but, actually, it only inclination. Only romantic natures, including poets and writers, can call it love. It is possible to pay attention to attractiveness of the person, but to fall in love with it really, it is necessary to communicate to it, to understand what his character, inner world, the moral principles. If after that interest in it does not die away, then it will be possible to speak about love.
3. Of course, it is possible to meet the nice girl on the street or to see at the next table in cafe, but it is impossible to tell at once that the love came. For a start it is worth approaching, at least, it, to talk, make the first impression. Though it quite often is deceptive. To get acquainted better, it is necessary to continue communication, to invite her to an appointment. But also after 2-h-3-h appointments the speech can go rather about love. The love comes after much longer acquaintance.
4. There are several versions of with what one person can attract another at first sight. Some say that the person can be pleasant to the one who sees in him some own lines. Others think that in the pleasant person the people see lines of the parents. The young man can like the girl something similar to his mother, and the girl – the young man similar to her father. Besides, there is a so-called "theory of tastes" according to which any given person likes only a certain type. Anyway, It is necessary to distinguishIt is necessary to distinguish the sympathy which arose only thanks to attractiveness from the original love based, first of all, on sincere qualities of the person. Ideally, that there was a love, in the person it has to be pleasant both. Though when you love really, the appearance becomes already not so important.
5. At first sight to speak about love very difficult, but to be pleasant each other at first sight quite perhaps. And the love can grow further from this first sympathy also. In similar cases also speak about love at first sight. However, there is always a danger to look for the second time and to feel disappointment.