Men's treason can have various character depending on which the woman should choose the corresponding line of conduct. The spouse should not make quick decisions on break in relations. It is important to understand the reasons and factors which provoked incorrectness of the husband.
Situations in which it is not necessary to forgive treason
Treason of the spouse with the girlfriend – an act which is difficult for forgiving and forgetting. Since that moment when the woman learns about treachery, in family life time of changes begins. The former attitude of the spouse and her trusting relationship to the husband begins to fall.
To learn about an act of the unfaithful husband means to get a psychological trauma which will not disappear completely. In some cases, it is not necessary to forgive treason of the husband with the girlfriend. Carry those situations in which the woman realizes that former mutual understanding, warm feelings and proximity between spouses will not arise any more to them.
The incorrect act of the man will constantly emerge in conflict situations in the form of mutual reproaches and offenses. The precious trust is lost forever, the image of the spouse will not become again reliable and expensive any more. If joint life of spouses brings only negative emotions and a continuous showdown, then the decision to disperse will be an optimal variant in this situation. Cases when the wife in family initially agrees to a role of the victim are known. It shows the readiness to forgive, concede, sacrifice for the sake of preservation of the family relations. Such behavior of the woman speaks psychological, material and other dependences on the man. For example, the spouse hesitates to get divorced from husband because of children in family or fear of loneliness, loss of the status of the married woman and others. In such situation the treason of the husband is provoked by dependent behavior of the woman. Making treachery, the man understood that at worst the wife will forgive him. It is necessary to leave the unfaithful husband when his treason is repeated, and the incorrect behavior (affairs, flirtation, appointments) has demonstrative character.
Situations, in which treason - not a reason for a divorce
There are situations in which the man changed once and inadvertently. Unfortunately, friendship between women quite often carries a shade of envy and rivalry. So, the girlfriend of the wife could tempt purposefully her spouse for the purpose of self-affirmation. The man plays a role of means of the embodiment of an artful plan of the unfortunate girlfriend in such situation. In this situation the wife should not make quick decisions on a divorce occasion with the husband and also to revenge offenders. Fidelity, sincerity and honesty – the integral qualities of safe marriage. Purity of oaths, intentions, thoughts are those components which help to keep love and family happiness of spouses. Treason of the loved one shows his attitude towards the spouse and marriage in general. Therefore in this situation each woman independently places priorities, choosing the corresponding line of conduct. The decision of the woman has to depend on a number of factors. It is necessary to analyze the nature of treason, behavior of the husband, the feelings and the estimated relation to the occurred situation in future joint life. If treason happened for the first time, the man very much regrets, realizes degree of the fault, tries to smooth down it, speaks with the spouse and understands her feelings, - it is not necessary to make the decision under the influence of momentary emotions. Wisdom, ability to forgive, patience – important components of long family life.