The age difference does not prevent lovers to be together. Only the relation of people around to such union can prevent. The future of couple is defined not by figure in the passport, and their compatibility and community of views.
Public opinion is wary of such couples and misunderstanding. Some think that the girl meets the adult man for the sake of money, others sympathize with her – he will not even be able to satisfy her. Therefore it should be taken into accountit should be taken into account whether you are capable to notice condemnation and sneers of people around.
Problems in the relations
But the real problems begin when parents or friends treat your choice badly. Many can awkwardly feel. Friends do not know what to speak about with man who is old enough to be the father. And parents cannot apprehend the age-mate as the daughter's guy. It can turn out so that they will never be able well to communicate, and the girl should be broken off between them.
On a wave of love it is possible not to pay attention to differences of opinion and disputes in trifles. But if you want to start a family, seriously think and define your compatibility. It is necessary to discuss all questions which will be important in the future. Would he likeWould he likeWould he like the child, how many children when the best time for the birth of the kid who will be engaged in a household whether the wife and other questions will work. Couple from different generations, and interests can strongly differ. Young people are full of energy and are curious. There is a wish to see the world, to do active sports and just to spend time outdoors. But the person is more senior, the quicker he is tired. It is quite possible that your couple will want to spend time of the house or to walk in the neighboring park all life. And you will feel in a cage, without having an opportunity to fulfill the dream. You should not forget and about the sad fact – men live less women. And if you have an age difference in 15 years, it can turn out that you early will become a widow. Very painfully to endure darling with whom half-lives lived especially if there are minor children.
Pluses of the relations
But if the age difference is less than 10 years, it will not hit so hard your relations. Especially if your outlooks on life coincide, you are able to agree and solve the conflicts peacefully. You receive the wise, skilled partner, most likely, who already achieved something in life and ready to family life.