Wedding – very disturbing event. But even more than forces are taken away by preparation for a celebration. Not to do the bride without assistants. Therefore witnesses at a wedding have to be people reliable.
Instruction
1. Role of the bridesmaid very responsible. The main task friends – to watch that both preparation, and a celebration took place properly, and newly married throughout a holiday looked faultlessly. The same concerns also the best man – he is responsible for rings and appearance of the groom directly at a wedding.
2. Naturally, it is possible to entrust such duties only to close people. It can be relatives – brothers and sisters, cousins and cousins, even uncles and aunts if they are rather young. Besides it is worth getting rid of stereotypes that only the people who are not connected by bonds of marriage can witness.
3. On the contrary, skilled men and women can be more useful at a wedding. In the Roman Empire, for example, as the bridesmaid chose the married matron whose main duty was to drive away from newly married evil spirits.
4. But it is necessary to observe balance – if friend the married, then and the friend has to be married too. It is also possible to take married couple. Presence of one free witness can create a certain tension in their tandem. Besides unmarried girls agree to be bridesmaids, hoping to meet the half at a wedding. So you should not "palm off" the friend of the married friend.
5. Future newlyweds should consider that not only how there will take place the wedding depends on witnesses, but also as the hen party or a bachelor party will be organized. If the groom with the bride decided to go into a holiday to the full extent, it is recommended to take two honourable witnesses from each party and some more auxiliary girlfriends and friends.
6. So, it becomes clear that witnesses at a wedding have to be not foreign people to the groom and the bride. But what to do if in their environment there is no suitable person? It is possible to call friends, colleagues, classmates or distant relatives. Only in this case it is worth communicating to these people in advance to understand whether they suit for a role of witnesses.
7. The main thing to choose people self-assured, artistic, responsible, cheerful. Witnesses have to be the first assistants to the host, so, be able to take safely the lead. Otherwise the holiday can turn into boring action.
8. The choice of the main bridesmaid – business responsible. Therefore it is worth touching several candidates in advance. Then in case of unforeseen circumstances the wedding will not appear under the threat of failure.
9. It is worth to rememberIt is worth to remember that a wedding – a holiday not only for newlyweds, but also for their witnesses. Therefore future girlfriend and the best man should be acquainted if they never saw each other before. If they find a common language, then will work in a tandem. At emergence between witnesses of antipathy, it is worth replacing one of them. Otherwise the holiday will take place in the tense atmosphere.