Why men – a question which excites practically all female minds change. Sometimes even very strong and ideal couples break up, there is it at once as soon as the fact of presence at the mistress's husband was published. Why men change and who is guilty of men's treason?
It is no secret, that a good few of men does not want to marry, and here the woman goes on different tricks, up to unplanned pregnancy more feasibly to attach darling to herself. Naturally, emergence "the third superfluous", is not entered in any way in plans of the woman for bright future because the mistress represents threat to the family relations.
On a question: "why men bring mistresses? whether" has several possible answers:
- to return the left youth. What more joint years are lived by, that heavy responsibility lies on the man's shoulders, they have to not only provide family, but also constantly improve the occupied territory. In such pursuit of money the men sometimes just want to have a rest and there is it, young and beautiful, meeting which, the man has a rest a body and soul. Having had the forgotten feeling long ago, the man hurries to family again;
- to strengthen sexual feelings. Very few people from women look at home the same as in public. The lack of a hairstyle, the old stretched clothes, eternal affairs and efforts on the husband practically does not remain to time. And if to take in attention the fact that the man sees this woman daily, then to keep inclination quite difficult;
- moral satisfaction. The beginning novel forces to fight heart stronger, there is a splash in adrenaline, this feeling wants to be had in increasing frequency. Here therefore men often change one mistress for another again to test those concerning romantic moments;
- to appearance of the person it is ready to listen. Very few people from wives are capable to allocate time in the habitual mode of cleaning – cooking - forget about children to sit down near the husband and to listen about his problems and sorrows. And not each man is ready to share them in family. And here again there is a mistress, not so much for sexual joys how many to listen and regret, "the third superfluous" is capable to accept the man with all his problems, cares and alarms;
- feeling of pity. Sometimes non-staff situations bring together two strangers, most often it is fellow workers. At first there is a feeling of pity, there is a wish to support and caress the upset person, gradually such moral relations pass to a new step - intimate.
How does explain men the unwillingness to be true?
Often unfaithful husbands accuse of the adultery the wife, yes that which made a lunch and washed shirts, cared for the house and raised children. Why? Yes because it has no time for a talk, for intim, for visits of cinema and restaurants eternally and so on.
How do men when the fact of treason is published justify themselves?
- fell in love, could not cope with temptation;
- she is guilty, that "the third superfluous", she carried away and tempted;
- wanted to revenge the spouse for treachery;
- presence of the mistress is a confirmation of the high social status and it does not affect the family relations in any way;
- bothered the same habitual family life.
Often men begin to open and deny presence of the mistress.
As the woman will react to the treason fact, it is difficult to assume. Sometimes treason helps to rally only the family relations, and sometimes pulls down them finally. Before taking a decisive step, it is necessary to decide for himself what to do next: to go hand in hand or certain roads.