Nevrotizm is the mental disorder of the person originating, most often, in the childhood. If at early age of the person there were unpleasant events or, on the contrary, it was pursued by hyper family care, such individual surely should know that the diagnosis "neurotic" means.
Who such neurotic: disease symptoms
Doctors consider that the nevrotizm is a protective reaction of mentality to aggression, hatred, excessive pressure of parents, etc. If these or similar factors were present at the childhood of the person, he often grows up the restrained personality, it is difficult to them to adapt to reality. Neurotics constantly doubt, are afraid of much, live in the world of illusions, in everything rely only on instincts and emotional judgments.
For neurotics there are several typical ways to be protected, compensate the problems:
- to find those who will accept them will regret, and will support;
- to find those, the even worse and to manipulate these people;
- to become reserved, to avoid communication, a civilization.
The second case of compensation is considered the most problem. Based on instincts and feelings, the neurotic not bad manipulates people, especially – if they have problems, for example, with physical or mental health. In that case the neurotic is capable even to head disorders or to provoke fighting.
Also carry to nevrotizm symptoms:
- frustration of sexual life;
- dizzinesses, headaches;
- pressure jumps;
- fear of a disease.
As the neurotic constantly worries, it results in strong fatigue. But at the same time the patient with a nevrotizm cannot cease to lurch from one extreme to the other, to plunge completely into life of others – generally, to do everything that leads to an additional stress. In this regard the sick person or his close can have a question – how to live to the neurotic to minimize adaptation problems in society.
How to treat the neurotic?
At the quiet course of a disease the neurotic is quite capable to help himself independently, but nevertheless it is desirable that he addressed the psychotherapist. With assistance of medicines the doctor will help to find the prime cause of a disease and to solve it. The expert will also teach how to lift a self-assessment of the patient with a nevrotizm, to be integrated in society, to effectively communicate, prevent development of secondary symptoms of a disease.
How to stop being the neurotic?
At the first symptoms of a nevrotizm of people has to arrange himself rest since strengthening and exacerbation of a disease usually happens against the background of strong mental and physical activities. The slightest failure is capable to knock down already not too high self-assessment, and it will lead to the fact that sooner or later all people around will begin to consider the neurotic such what he sees himself – worthless, weak, silly.
It is very important to neurotic to raise the self-assessment constantly. For this purpose it is necessary:
- to thicket with enthusiasm to be engaged in favourite and well familiar business;
- to cease to be engaged in self-sacrifice – the value of the neurotic is not less at all, than the value of the healthy person, and here the moral principles of the patient with a nevrotizm are even much higher;
- to look narrowly at people around from the rational point of view – ideal people does not exist, all have merits and demerits.
In addition, the neurotic needs to get used to active communication - only this way he will learn not to become reserved. It is useful is and replace an environment, especially if I am present people with neurotic symptoms at it. A healthy environment is capable to compensate also more serious violations, for example – schizophrenia. It is necessary to communicate with positive, kind, open people. As often as possible the neurotic has to communicate with the nature – walk will calm nerves, will reduce stress, will load with positive energy.
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