Parents always want for the child only the best. But how to define what is really good? How not to do much harm, and it is better to make? Relationship between parents and children is very important. It is necessary to build them step by step.
Parents help children
When the child is only born ─ he small and helpless. Naturally, the kid very much needs parents. Careful mother and the father are only glad to help, to them each help to the child in joy. Gradually children grow and look at behavior of mother and father, often copy it. If the parent at each opportunity helps the child, then and the kid will grow up the good assistant.
Do not plunge completely into the affairs, find for the child enough time, and your child will grow up same in relation to people around. The child gets used by this Wednesday and perceives it as norm, over the years copying it in the family.
But there comes the moment when children do not want to accept the help of parents. It becomes important to them to communicate with friends, to win the place in society. There is a wish to walk, find more authority among peers. It is not necessary to be frightened, it is important to wait this moment. It is so-called ""transition period"". Then the child will become for parents the close friend again. During this period the main help consists in understanding and patience.
Children help parents
Children grow, become absolutely adult, and fathers and mothers do not look younger. By a retirement age many things it becomes more difficult, than earlier. The visit of shop very much exhausts, and it becomes very heavy to bear a bag with products. Time when parents need the help of children came. And here it is important how they were brought up because children will begin to repeat behavior of mother and father in the past. There is a situation when the child grew up, got up and does not consider a duty to help parents. If it occurred, means at mother, the father and the child not the close relations. Not late to correct everything though already not so just as in the childhood. Unfortunately, happens and so that parents devoted all the life to children, and in reply did not receive the same. There is it, most likely, because of strong pamperedness of the child. It is important to help the child, but not to indulge his whims. It is just necessary to help and understand at a difficult moment. But, if the child in the childhood felt care and support, he will not leave parents alone with difficulties. Now children become a support. Parents need children as well as children in parents. Mutual aid in family - pledge of strong and close relations. It is what it is necessary to aspire to and what should be valued.