In life of parents there comes such moment when children mature and begin to live separately, the family. They independently solve the household and current problems, adding to the life experience.
Cohabitation with parents does not allow children to show the independence. Proceeding from the housing moment, hosts are parents, but not children. Therefore, all household problems are solved by mother or the father.
In most cases the opinion of the children living in common is not considered. Parents do not find it necessary to consult on children concerning the solution of the questions connected with the maintenance of the house, food, etc. As a result – children get used that parents for them solve everything and do not make attempts to permission of the arising questions.
Living with parents, children do not make attempts to get own housing. Everything suits them, it is convenient to them. Having given birth to own children, they will not be able to impart them independence in the actions, will not be able to set them a positive example. They will also live at the expense of the parents. The son, living with the parents and having already the family, does not seek to become the full-fledged host. In the household plan such husband is absolutely unadapted to economic questions. In case of loss of the father, he at adult age will have a difficult process of adaptation to independent life. If he does not manage to adapt, he can lose family as he will fully not provide it.
At cohabitation of two or several generations, steadily there are problems in the relations. It seems to the senior generation that they know life better and by this right try to operate life of the children. Children want to live life therefore they show a protest against excessive parental guardianship. On this background there are conflict situations. In the presence in big family of several women, problems with division of the territory of the apartment or the house can appear. Each woman wants to be the hostess most to solve as when to prepare as when to make. Only manifestation of wisdom of the senior women will help to distribute obligations for the house correctly. Living separately from parents, the woman adapts to family life quicker. Besides, it gives it feeling of confidence in the position of the hostess of the house. At education of children in family where several generations live, there can be problems in education methods. It is difficult to consolidate requirements of all family members to one system. Children to whom different requirements from adults are imposed become timeservers in communication and have no concrete line of conduct.