In life there is anything - and the best friends quarrel! That it did not happen to you, it is necessary to learn on errors of others. Sort out the reasons of contentions of people familiar to you - do not walk twice into a same water.
If to your friendship several decades and it began at school or kindergarten, you think that nothing is capable to destroy it. It not absolutely so - exists a number of the reasons because of which the end to your cordial relations can come. Friendship, as well as love, it is necessary to feed constantly with mutual assistance, ability to listen and non-failure operation in response to a request for the help from the friend. Even having been removed from each other, occupied with creation of the family relations and career, do not forget about longtime friends. Otherwise the gradual distance and alienation will lead to mutual understanding loss, and as a result - to a quarrel. Having happened on the street, you will not find the general subjects for a conversation and will disperse, being perplexed as you managed earlier to be on friendly terms with this person. You keep the friend informed of the life, consult on him in some questions, respectively, and your friend will not forget about you. Sometimes quarrels between friends begin with the trifle seeming insignificant and insignificant in the further analysis of the event. You can not agree in opinions on a game of favorite team during the friendly match, you can react differently to an innocent joke, you can believe false gossips of envious persons - such nonsense would seem, and the friendly relations can be destroyed. And it is necessary to be only more tolerant, to respect opinion of the friend, not to trust recklessly unfamiliar people. Often friends quarrel because of warm attachments - they can fall in love with one person. It is very difficult situation which has to be solved very delicately and, of course, not without the aid of the general sweetheart. It is impossible to harbor the evil and a grudge at the friend if the choice fell on it. Try not to allow losses of the old friend because of the circumstances which are not depending on you. Take a vacation, change scenery, take a closer look at other persons of an opposite sex - it is possible that you just "caught" feeling of the friend and it will pass soon. If you are colleague fellow, quarrels between you are possible because someone from you will consider himself unfairly bypassed in fight for the next step of a career ladder. In this case it is necessary to put an accurate side between work and friendship, not to mix these concepts. You spend more time, communicating on the weekend. Support the friend better, with a pure soul helping him, than to spend forces for inserting sticks to it into wheels. United team you will achieve a lot of bigger, than one by one.