Very often on the street it is possible to meet strange couples: handsome guys with imperceptible gray mice or attractive ladies with fat men of low growth. The similar choice of soulmates is caused by the fact that men began to be afraid to meet beautiful women.
Game on a miserable amount
Presence of the woman convicted by beauty for the bulk of men – a stress, the European scientists came to such conclusion. During the experiment the men experienced the emotions capable to affect not only psychological, but also physiological components.
In some cases the imbalance of the general condition of examinees was estimated as "a clinical form of violation".
So occurs? Perhaps, fear of acquaintance to the beautiful woman consists in a self-preservation instinct? Everything is much simpler. Complexes of the underestimated self-assessment, substitution of social concepts, a modern cult of prosperity, natural emancipation and a set of the subjective reasons such as fear to love, in total grant to men the justificatory right "not to try to obtain", not to risk refusal, and to go there where they will obviously win.
Beauty will save the world and will remain alone?
Alas, but the probability of such development of the scenario is very probable. The diffidence, loss of a bright gendernost and samtsovost more often conduct enough clever guys on the way of smaller resistance. The man is worthy only that woman who near him. "Everyone chooses on himself the woman, religion, the road..." Only self-assured, in the forces and opportunities the man can "read", hear and feel on the woman space level. And then external beauty becomes just an appeal, a prolog of the main understanding. This man greedy "reads" beauty of a body and soul, the head behind the head... He chose this road.
Such man is not afraid to love even if without answer. He knows that beauty it is impossible to be afraid, it needs to try to obtain every day, to try to obtain and protect.
But there is a road simpler, pryamy. There beauty is subjective, love without answer there - a disease. There at the sight of the beautiful, self-sufficient woman at the man only doubts which are mutated further in jealousy arise. They consider that they are not capable to become for such ideal lady that one and only therefore try to choose those who look simpler and more modest. Exactly here the man is harmed by a complex of the underestimated self-assessment. A prolog and the epilog - all in couple of lines, all together. He is eager this beauty, but is afraid of it, he is not self-assured. Also makes the choice for other girl. And then looks for justifications calming itself the fact that really chose what is necessary. Somehow to samoopravdatsya, guys begin to say that beautiful girls most often silly, eccentrical, windy. Such position generated and gave a new impetus to the present stage of emancipation. Self-sufficiency and high social viability of the woman - not always her choice, most likely, there is no other choice just. Emancipation - side effect of male laziness, diffidence and elementary cowardice. Beauty gets only to the one who it is worthy.