Are not afraid of really clever, educated and wise women of the man, and love and appreciate. And here the upstarts who are proud of the knowledge are diligently avoided.
It is considered to be that men are afraid of clever women. In reality the situation is a little differently – men avoid young ladies upstarts who in each conversation seek to insert the unique conclusion and to show superiority over other people. And here the wise young ladies who are allocated also high I.Q., on the contrary, were always considered as ideal companions of life.
Know-it-all or clear head?
The female mind can be considered from two parties at once. There are many girls considering themselves the real intellectuals, and trying to show every minute this quality to all people around. They perfectly study, their knowledge is based only on the school and institute program, and such ladies as though on memory read any argument from the textbook.
The "know-it-alls" who are indulgently considering schoolmates haughtily begin to irritate people around in the early childhood. Especially – boys. Character and desire of such young ladies to show all the ideal knowledge often remains also at adult age. And, so also the attitude of surrounding people towards them does not change.
The man is afraid to connect the life with the upstart who will constantly test his knowledge and to publicly correct incorrectly placed accents in words. As a rule, know-it-alls do not recognize someone's opinion, except the and seldom think that it is sometimes better to keep silent, than to insert the "five kopeks". Of course, they are not ready and to allow the man to be the leader in a conversation. Near such woman her elect feels extremely uncomfortablly, constantly waits for a dirty trick and a prick in the address.
Absolutely other – worldly wisdom. Do not teach it at school or at institute. It does not depend on mental abilities of the person, on the number of the read books at all. This deeper and important concept.
If the woman is wise, and in addition to everyday mind has also excellent education, a stock of useful knowledge, then it will be possible to call her the ideal companion for each educated fairly clever man. It is so pleasant when it is possible to talk to darling on any subject, to ask council, but at the same time it is not necessary to compete and win constantly leader positions in the relations.
Woe from Wit
In clever and silly women who are deprived of worldly wisdom at all the men are frightened most of all by their inability to become for the soulmate the real support and a support. For example, during important and difficult dialogue in the big company such lady will hardly think of how to help darling to cope with the asked questions and it is beautiful to get out of the developed inconvenient situation. She will try to get through forward more likely and to show to people around what everything knows and will understand everything. And will also publicly reproach the elect with his mistakes.
Is not present any I pound in three higher educations and red color of diplomas if the woman is not able to behave and correctly to place borders in communication with darling and surrounding people. The man near her understands that he under any conditions will remain the fool. He will not have a desire to shift mountains and to break rocks for the sake of that girl who will comment on all feats the unique phrase: "And I also could".
The fool?
From all aforesaid it is possible to draw a conclusion: men love really clever and wise women near whom they feel like true heroes from whom they get support, care. But there is also an exception. If the man does not shine with mind and hardly represents in what part of the map is, and associates an abbreviation of the Second World War only with computer games, then he will be afraid of any type of women in whom there is though the slightest gleam of intelligence.
Silly men fear like the plague both upstarts know-it-alls, and ideal for other young people of Elaine Premoudrykh. Ridiculing of any manifestations of female intelligence in personal meeting will be their protective reaction. But it is not dislike for clever ladies, but banal fear to seem is sillier.
For each man it is very important to feel in the relations significant and is not worse than the soulmate at all. And ideally – the main thing. If the woman understands it and tries to care for comfort of the man, then near her to it it will be good, irrespective of figure in the test for IQ.