Women often complain of what men are not able to listen to at all. During dialogue are irritated, answer inattentively, interrupt, turn to information a deaf ear or all not so understand. The inability to listen to others is defined by a biological factor and in many respects depends on education and psychological factors.
Instruction
1. Women and men possess the different structure of a brain. As a rule, at women the left hemisphere is more developed, it contains bigger quantity of nervous cages and is more active. At men – on the contrary. Considering that the left hemisphere is responsible for perception of information aurally, men hear others by nature worse.
2. The female brain is arranged so that it has more nervous communications between both hemispheres. It is directly connected with quality of abilities. For example, many women easily can do several things at the same time, men – focus on something one. Therefore if the man is busy with something, it is difficult to listen and perceive information for him.
3. The ability of a brain to perceive and process oral speech depends on amount of active chemical – a dopamine. In a female brain of this substance it is more therefore it is easier for women to perceive information aurally. Other researches show that the brain of girls develops quicker, than a brain of boys. Including sites which are responsible for hearing and speech. Therefore since the childhood of the girl have more developed verbal abilities.
4. From all aforesaid it is visible that at all times men initially had lower abilities to obtain information aurally. Therefore children in family see these problems in communication between parents and "absorb" this stereotype of relationship. Girls since the childhood get used that men are not able to listen to women, and boys it is the phenomenon begin to consider normal.
5. Partially the problem is that women are beings emotional, and men got used to lean on the facts and logic. Being under the influence of any emotions, women are not able to perceive logical arguments and to reckon with the facts therefore it is difficult for them to understand the man. To men too emotional speech of the woman is often unclear. It seems to them, in their conversation there are no interrelations, any logic, it is too much unnecessary words. A male brain, trying to analyze the emotional speech quickly is tired, tries to lower all unnecessary, distracts … As a result – the man "turned to all information a deaf ear".
6. Men can and are able to listen. But in certain cases not all information of which the woman tries to inform is interesting to men. To men it is uninteresting what dresses and shoes she saw in shop in what her girlfriend at a party was dressed, the plot of new series or culinary telecast is uninteresting. Just as secrets of fishing, a detail of a football match, characteristic and technical highlights of cars are uninteresting to women.