There is such saying: "Changed once, will change and from now on". However psychologists consider that it not absolutely so. On most not so there is a lot of pathological male traitors. In most cases the partner's campaign on the party is no more than his reaction to any circumstances in the interpersonal relations.
With such problem as treason, family psychologists and sexologists deal rather often. And of course, experts conducted on this subject a set of researches and polls. What do their patients who fooled around usually answer psychologists? Why men change the girlfriends?
Persistence of other women
According to many men, very often unfaithfulness happens for this reason. Some women can be extremely persistent in search of the second half or the sexual partner. Often the man cannot refuse to such lady and changes with her to the wife, sometimes even just in order that quicker to get rid of it.
It is considered that by nature men of a poligamna. Many women believe that if they do not begin to control constantly the partner, he will change to the right and on the left. However it far not so. Most of men nevertheless without special work remains faithful to the wife, without having desire to go to the party. In strong marriage where mutual understanding reigns, the accidental unfaithfulness of the husband often happens only because of persistence of other woman.
Desire to ego-trip
Many men admitted to psychologists what was changed by them to the second half because of desire to look more courageous, charismatic and taken place. That is took this step for self-affirmation.
For this reason for the wives change, as a rule, only men, it is not enough what reached in life. Such men can amuse the vanity once, having brought the mistress, even in case already consist with the wife or the girlfriend in very long relations.
Eternally busy wife
Some men, by their recognition, brought the mistress only because have no opportunity to spend with the wife in the bedroom so much time how many they would like. The intense schedule of work of the spouse, a huge number of housework, need to watch children and so forth can become the reason in this case.
In this case begins to seem to the man that he is absolutely unnecessary the second half and became for it nearly "invisible being". Most often in such situation the man at first tries to tell the wife about the experiences about it. Having received in reply something like "At me on it is not present time...", it simply goes on the party at last to feel necessary.
Revenge for treason or offense
Rather often men change the partner in case she got on flirtation or even something more serious. In certain cases husbands can forgive to wives similar behavior. However the offense at the same time with them usually in the subsequent remains for a long time.
The same concerns also those cases when the wife constantly offends or humiliates the husband. Perhaps, the man some time will also stand offenses from the second half. However, sooner or later he surely will begin to look for that woman who will like and to respect him.
There passed the love...
Sometimes it happens so that after torrid love affair the partners begin to bother just gradually each other. Former feelings leave, and the husband with the wife live together only on a habit. Such situations also very often become reason that the man begins to change.
Actually in this case the campaign on the party cannot even actually be considered as treason. The man at whom the relations with the old partner came to naught has full authority to fall in love with other woman again and again to become happy.
Presence of the close friend changing to the wife
Women, as we know, very much like to gossip. However such shortcoming and to many men is inherent. Men also often share with each other various news including about the wives and girlfriends.
And sometimes it happens so that the man just comes under influence of the friend who is often changing to the wife and considering such behavior norm. Usually such men in the stories exaggerate the feats a little and excessively positively describe adventures on the party.
The wife grew old and ceased to please
Unfortunately, are subject to age changes of appearance of the woman much stronger than men. Over time skin at can become not such smooth, hair — brilliant, and a figure — harmonious.
Of course, if relations in family developed cordial and strong, the man, most likely, will not pay attention to similar trifles. Near it still his beloved with whom he lived for many years and which, perhaps gave birth to it to children. In an opposite case the man will begin to think that it is worthy bigger, and will bring the young mistress.