Unfortunately, even the loving people sometimes leave. Disperse not only couples living in a civil marriage but also those that issued the relations, raise children, lived together long enough. Sociologists say that initiators of stains women become more often. But they note also the fact that the men who left family come back much more often.
Instruction
1. Sometimes the woman who did not manage to forgive, for example, at once to him treason forces to leave family the man. The offense which moved it forced to expose the husband who obeyed to its decision. Actually, men are rather conservative in this plan and, even despite an extramarital affair, seldom which of them seriously decides to break off family bonds. They quite accept such situation. Having left after the spontaneous quarrel, they have an opportunity to estimate as far as the family is really dear to them. Having remained one and having calmed down after some time, the woman too soberly assesses a situation and can forgive the caused offense. The spouses maintaining the relations including, through children, can reunite again if the man shows an initiative and will regret.
2. The reason that the man leaves, having lived couple of decades in family, sometimes there is a notorious "crisis of middle age". During this period children already grew up and leave the house, but the man feels still young and is afraid of the coming old age. He leaves, trying to prove to himself that he can start everything over again. But it is run from itself which is in advance doomed to failure. Having realized the value of those relations and that life which he led, the man comes back again if the woman has enough wisdom to understand and forgive such act.
3. Not often, but happens when return happens in many years. If the man is young, it seems to him that the better lot and the best woman wait for it ahead therefore he does not appreciate that he has. Having left such woman and having tried the luck with others, he can realize the mistake and estimate that soulmate which lost by youth and nonsense. And such examples happen not only at cinema, but also in life.
4. The guy can stop meeting the girl if begins to seem to him that the relations became fresh and she is not so interesting as it seemed to him at first. For some girls such event which at first seemed the tragedy becomes an occasion to work over itself and the appearance, to begin new life. They change, having begun to do fitness, having changed the style, having achieved success in career. Here also appears again "former" at which eyes on that what treasure opened he lost.
5. Correctly say that to find, it is necessary to lose. Of course, we will not forget how many nerves and health, especially for the woman, will be cost by such experiment, but if feelings of spouses are mutual if they love and respect each other, then such fantastic end is quite possible.