Why men do not give gifts

Why men do not give gifts

Women often complain that men do not give gifts. It will couple prichinno numerous offenses and even quarrels. At the same time they forget that psychologically and emotionally men very strongly differ from women, and not always lack of a gift are a sign that you are not loved.

1. Of course, there are cases of pathological greed or economy as your gentleman can explain it. But in this case, such line can be inherent also in the woman. Just greedy lady will present you a cheap knickknack or the fact that it is not necessary to it most, but rolls in the house, and the man is not capable of such cunnings – he just will not present anything.

2. For the woman the main thing - an emotional component of a gift. It can be the kickshaw but presented in any certain occasion, it is better romantic. She unambiguously perceives such gift as manifestation of love. For the man, less emotional, day of the first meeting or another wedding anniversary which passed very long time ago - not an occasion constantly to remember it. He can just forget about this day therefore if you want to receive a gift, then remind to him of it, and you should not suit a family skandalchik instead of a romantic dinner.

3. Men think more globally. They do not perceive a plush toy or even a jewelry as something serious. If he builds the house, then considers a gift it. Therefore when he equips your life, do not perceive it as desire to turn you into domestic slavery. If you are constantly surrounded with care, then you should not take offense at lack of a gift to some insignificant date - already presented you paradise.

4. If in that family where your man was brought up, was not got to exchange gifts, then it is hardly worth expecting them from him. If you are offended by their absence, then just re-educate it, teach and show how it is pleasant – to give pleasure to darling. Of course, you should not do it, making scandals; women have enough step and mind to make it so that your man will remain in full confidence that the initiative was him. When the person wants to give pleasure to another, he quickly will understand that the gift is a great way too.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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