Sometimes even the strongest and successful marriage can be destroyed if one of partners decides on treason. In most cases representatives of a strong half of mankind sin with it. But what motives pull men "on the party"?
The marriage union imposes a set of the obligations in particular concerning mutual fidelity on partners. Meanwhile, quite often it happens that someone from spouses gets the single or constant relations "on the party" - changes. It is considered that men fool around more often than women – to husbands as patriarchal way throughout many centuries provided to the stronger sex much more freedom. Of course, in each case of treason of its reason are individual, however it is easy to track the general trends. Generally they are connected or with the obvious or hidden problems in marriage, or with psychological features of the identity of the man.
Widespread mistake of many women is that they consider a wedding a final point of development of the relations though actually it is only one of the first stages. Loss by the man of interest in the spouse and search of the forgotten romantic feelings "on the party" becomes natural result of such approach. Besides, household problems and difficulties of family life are the frequent reason of unfaithfulness. Eventually marriage assumes responsibility, and sometimes the load of this responsibility becomes too heavy, as induces husbands to look for easier and undemanding relations.
It is natural that problems with an intimate component in marriage can cause treason too. Quite often it happens that the woman concentrated on providing a family cosiness cannot pay to the husband attention in a bed as often as it would like and instead of facilitating life to the spouse, the man changes it. At last, treason can become result of the fact that the man feels restrained or humiliated: being incapable to ego-trip in family, he looks for opportunities to feel the importance with other woman.
Difficulties in marriage are not the only reasons pushing men on treason. In many cases the husbands bring mistresses and when in family everything is good. It is caused by the psychological reasons: thirst for freedom, thirst of adventures, search of new feelings, neglect marital fidelity. As a rule, such men actually did not ripen for the constant relations, but as the marriage alliance is already concluded, they should "enjoy last days" with a wedding ring on a finger. In these cases the speech, most often, goes about "one-time" sex, but not about constant mistresses as the man on treason is pushed by not marriage problems, but interest and passion which quickly die away when the objective is achieved. Men of this type are not capable to place truly priorities therefore the single affair on the party seems to them more important, than family and the constant relations which they are if something happens ready to offer with ease. The similar behavior testifies to emotional and social immaturity and egoism, in most cases such husbands are not ready to grant the similar rights for treason to the companions. Even if in words there is an arrangement on "open marriage", in practice it comes down to what is changed only by the man.