By parting couple of people once dear each other irrespective of whether this marriage was registered in bodies the REGISTRY OFFICE or not, inevitably there is an initiator of parting. The human habit – rather artful thing therefore married couples, even when it seems that the love died and is the relations on the party, not always make out an official divorce. But there are situations when one of spouses becomes the supporter of parting, and, statistically, in the majority of stains the man acts as the initiator.
Still great Tolstoy told that all happy families are happy equally, and all unhappy are unfortunate in own way, and in most cases the divorce becomes inevitable in the absence of mutual understanding and cold in the relations which wait for the house. During the different periods of the age of the man put forward the different causes of divorces. So, in youth, the moment when it seems that it is heavy to live for the sake of own family can come sooner or later and there is a wish to live for itself – to take a walk, meet friends, to go on all night long to fashionable dancing club or to go to a campaign. But most of men, as well as women, start own families today late enough when this occasion loses "popularity". Undoubtedly, at any age at the beginning of family life it is heavy to man to refrain from comparison of the wife with own mother and if the mother-in-law took a dislike to the daughter-in-law at first sight and tries to keep the son under the vigilant control, then the divorce is rather probable. The mother-in-law opposes herself, "the clear head and the beauty" who precisely knows that is necessary for her beloved boy, the hated daughter-in-law. And, if it is heavy to son to avoid maternal comments, then dosmert this squabble can bother him sooner or later, and here even presence of children does not become an obstacle for a divorce. But mother of the overage blockhead, it is simpler to them to hide under her wing, than to build own family, forgets that in most cases beloved "baby" will return to it and as now they will coexist – very difficult question. Men after forty decide on a divorce, wishing to find the companion of life more young, hoping to find near it the second youth. But such decision often conceals in itself danger that the young girl for the sake of achievement of own interests will try to use the man who reached a certain situation. Separately from the listed reasons there is one more - impossibility of the spouse to give birth to the general child. Though many men who did not wait due to various reasons for the birth of the own child with pleasure raise children of the wife from the previous marriage, putting in them all the heart and soul, including them really native and accepting all heart of a word that the father not the one who gave rise, and the one who brought up. But to some men the fact that the child is flesh from his flesh therefore after thoughts they also leave the spouse for the sake of that which will give birth to him to his native kid is important. And at any age, even after 60 years, the man can decide on a divorce because of troublemaking character of the spouse. But here already, as in the known Ukrainian saying – saw eyes that was chosen, so eat.