Now more often it is possible to hear from young parents that they lack for anything time including on occupations with the children. Besides also that who have only one child complain, and at home it is full of any equipment which is carrying out the most part of work.
Instruction
1. Modern life has rather fast speed, especially in the large cities. There people constantly somewhere run, hurry and at the same time not always manage to make all the affairs. In villages and small settlements the way of sedate life when people still manage to enjoy the nature and communication with each other still remained.
2. Haste is most often connected with changes of values - now in a priority material benefits and situation in society, with their help the person is estimated and the chance to use all achievements of the modern world is given. Even the training at public school which is formally considered as free constantly demands expenses of a different type. Without speaking already about the higher education, obtaining additional skills and knowledge - all this costs money and besides considerable. Almost each parent wants to give to the child though some start in life in the form of the diploma without which it is difficult to get normal job. And to have such opportunity, it is necessary to work and quite a lot - this is not aboutthis is not aboutthis is not about people with already available high income. Therefore on communication with the child of time remains less and less.
3. Of course, modern technologies great facilitate life, creating the equipment which performs a part of homework for us. It both washing machines, and dishwashers, and multicookers, and vacuum cleaners robots, and many other things. But to get to itself such assistants, too the necessary rather big money, and for this purpose again it is necessary to work hard.
4. However, when in family there are small children, it is necessary to change a few priorities and to understand that communication and development of the child - very important point. At preschool age the character of the kid is built up, the foundation of knowledge and aspiration to develop are laid. Very strongly depends on parents that for the person will grow from their child. You should not shift this function to other people - tutors, teachers, nurses, etc. At any degree of employment it is possible to find a little time to stay with the child, to talk to it, to play.
5. The unavailability of these people is one more reason of a lack of time on communication with the child to be parents. It can be connected with youth, egoism, lack of a parental instinct, desire to live only for itself. They spend all free time on the hobbies, issues and other occupations, and the child is on care of grandmothers, nurses or just without supervision at this time.
6. Anyway, even if you some bring up the child without the aid of relatives, you have very difficult financial position and you work at several works somehow to survive, try to find time for the child. It is very important for it - much more important, than the clean apartment and a fresh lunch from three dishes. Household chores can be done together with the child, at the same time accustoming also him to work and also spending time together. And the main thing, talk to the kid, any more, the TV or the computer will not replace to it real-life communication with parents. Only do not miss this time, otherwise then the child will simply not need it, he will get used to live without you.