Moving off in searches of true love, each girl dreams to meet the prince – clever, strong, rich, kind, true. When her desire it comes true, necessary only to enjoy happiness and to live with darling to an extreme old age. But sometimes the fairy tale has property to come to an end unexpectedly because of escape of the prince charming. The famous expert in the relations Lev Vozhevatov undertook to explain to women the nature of behavior of men who leave them.
The main problem of the relations in which the successful reliable man leaves the woman Vozhevatov calls lack of development from her party. And this development – not some generalized concept, it consists in several important aspects.
Appearance role
The woman is always obliged to care for appearance, using to the maximum what is granted to it by the nature, and without refusing an opportunity it to improve. It is good if it turns out to assign financial side of a question to the elect, but also without it it has to find money for personal care. The sexual inclination of her man therefore it is necessary to try to look for it to the maximum depends on appearance of the partner. And untidy, sick or tired it is better not to be shown at all if there is such opportunity.
To appearance the woman needs to treat as work: not to shirk, not to shirk, to study constantly. Even if with something not to be got on, perfect these skills to skill level at all. It is about a hairstyle, manicure, a make-up, fitness classes.
The main thing is to perceive itself adequately, to learn to see strong and weaknesses. Self-complacency is a deadlock way. It is necessary to rise in front of the mirror, to call honest the shortcomings and to understand whether it is possible to change them somehow. For example, to change clothes, to lose excess weight or even to decide on plastic surgery.
When the woman wants to look faultlessly for the beloved, just and there is her personal growth. And excuses about deficiency of time and money are useless. Everything is possible if to set a goal. Of course, it is the best of all to change with material support of the elect. Otherwise – to think up how to solve the problem with the minimum expenses. In this love game someone surely has to act. Or the woman will begin to work on herself, or her man will leave to look for another.
Importance of language of a body
Integral part of appearance of the woman is language of her body. Here the gait, a manner to talk, gesticulation, a pose for sitting, ability to wear clothes belongs. Of these elements there is a unique aura of femininity. It is enough to look at recognized beauties from a film world and to estimate, how amazingly they know body language. If the woman so is not able, she should be engaged in self-development in this direction, to register in dances, model courses and something similar.
The gentle, refined, defenseless girl has to become an ultimate goal of work on herself. This image – that basis which is pleasant practically to all. By the way, not superfluous will be to remember also undesirable behavior models:
- energetic vamp;
- ordinary neighbour's little girl;
- lover of parties and glamour;
- the iron lady with men's manners.
Having chosen the correct vector of the movement, and turning into the distinguished lady, it is possible to estimate the progress on behavior of the man. The good sign when it takes the darling on all actions, acquaints and shows to friends, colleagues. Means, she causes pride, desire to brag to surrounding with possession of such jewelry in the partner. To men, as well as women, it is pleasant when they are envied. For them the companion of life – one of criteria of success. And when it is, for example, about the rich person, his darling has to correspond to the beautiful car or the smart apartment, decorate these things, but not be lost on their background.
Behavior of the woman in the relations
The successful man wants to see the happy and serene darling nearby. And its eternally dissatisfied look will quickly fight off it desire to come back home in the evening. Besides, the important role of a motivator for the beloved is assigned to the woman in the relations. Who as not it, will inspire him on feats to admire, rejoice, support and load with energy for new fulfillments.
There are enough conflicts and oppositions to the stronger sex at work, and tenderness, softness, humility, care, adoration is necessary at home. How will the wise woman arrive, having noticed the excited condition of the man? Of course, will try to calm and extinguish in it I am eager for a quarrel, but will not be engaged in inflating of the conflict, trying to discover a reason for offense.
One more important aspect – to be with the man on one wave, to support and to unconditionally accept any his opinion. Let he will not be right, it is better to allow it to make a mistake. But, in process of correction of a situation, the man will have again an occasion to feel strong and powerful.
Of course, to forget to argue with the elect – it is not so simple. But, in fact, the woman does not remain in the relations without the right to vote. She can express the opinion, give convincing arguments. Quietly, without pressure or desire to insist on the. And further to wait what final decision will be made by the man.
Summing up the results, it becomes obvious that it is impossible to remain sitting on two chairs: to remain the convinced feminist and to construct the happy relations. The woman needs to choose what she wants actually. If in a priority personal happiness then to accept all earlier mentioned aspects as the absolute truth and to develop in these directions. A word "is married" just and means that to the forefront there is a partner, and the woman takes the place for the man.
The stronger sex, certainly, has zones of responsibility in the relations. For example, work and financial wellbeing of family. Therefore the measures undertaken by the woman will not be effective if the partner does not wish to fulfill the part of obligations. You should not cling to such copy, it does not deserve it. It is better to look for the one who corresponds to criteria of the real man. And if the woman already conducts the correct work on herself, the fatal meeting will not keep itself waiting long.