Family life contains both positive, and bad points. One of points which is not pleasant to women it is a lack of attention from the husband. On it there are several reasons.
Employment and rest
The husband is the main getter of money in family. On it at him the most part of its time can leave. Respectively, earnings are its main objective. Seeking for its performance, the man can devote it practically all the time. The main thing for it is a positive result.
As a result of big expense of energy at work, the man, coming home, needs rest. In that case the house for it becomes the place where it is possible to have a rest and relax, not only physically, but also psychologically. It just does not have forces for household chores. At a statement to it claims concerning inattention the man is irritated. He does not understand why the wife is dissatisfied as he makes all efforts for providing her and children. Constructive dialogue for which it is necessary to choose suitable time can become an exit. Perhaps, it will be better to be made on the weekend.
Loss of interest
One of the reasons that the husband pays not enough attention to the wife - loss of interest in it as to the woman. It can happen even at the very beginning of joint life. It is proved by the fact that the man achieved the woman and relaxed. At him end of the Gain program worked. At the same time he is absolutely confident that it is necessary to pay attention to the woman only in the course of courtings. At long family life the man can cease to be interested in the wife. There is it because over time they get used to each other so that they cease to perceive the spouse as a sexual object. As the result – is lost need of manifestation of attention. In case the wife ceases to watch herself, the husband also ceases to pay her attention. Not well-groomed look, the got fat figure, untidy clothes will hardly be able to draw attention of the man. All this, on the contrary, will promote search of new feelings on the party.
Behavior
Pay attention to the behavior in family. If you constantly are nervous, raise the voice and state claims, the husband will begin to avoid communication with you. The reason of it is it will try to be protected from the irritating moments. Find a way of correction of the behavior, be able to relax. So you not only will put the nerves in order, but also will help the husband to find rest in family. At impossibility of solution of problems in the relations, address the expert. The family psychologist will help to find the reasons of misunderstanding of spouses and also will give necessary consultations on improvement of a psychological microclimate in family.