The male mentality is arranged not as women's. Guys can frostily behave in spite of the fact that they have sincere feelings to the girl. If the man does not speak to you about the love, does not mean at all that it is absent.
Instruction
1. The first reason for which the man does not tell you gentle and tender words is in his complex which can result not from absolutely correct education. Perhaps, in family of your young man it was not accepted to express openly the love and the emotions therefore the man will frostily behave in relation to the soulmate. If you try to impart to him the positive relation to compliments, most likely, it will not yield to you desirable result. With such problem it is better to address the psychologist.
2. If your man just does not like to talk much, and is a thorough taciturn person, hardly you will wait from him for tender words and tenderness. You will not be able to change character of the person therefore if you do not accept such guy, change it for more talkative, only remember that the secret of family happiness is not in compliments at all.
3. One more reason of lack of gentle and tender words from your favourite man is in lack of its feelings to you. If earlier he was gentle and attentive, and now became rigid, most likely, to love or was not, or it passed. When between people there is no sincerity, passion and spiritual proximity, you should not wait for tender words and compliments from the man. He will only not begin to tell something to please you as there is no wish to do it it at all. Talk to the beloved and take an interest whether his feelings to you cooled down. Perhaps, he will tell that actually your experiences are vain, and his visible indifference is explained by a set of problems work or some other factors. You do not hurry to pull down the relations as you can because of nonsense lose the worthy person.
4. Think that the lack of tender words can be caused by some negative events of the past. Perhaps, your young man once met the girl, tried to be gentle and tender with her, showered with her compliments, and she derided him, taking tenderness for weakness. Such behavior quite could provoke origin of new complexes and dislike for trembling words. Explain to the man that you lack warm emotions from him and banal compliments. Tell that you will not begin to laugh at its feelings, and, on the contrary, estimate this positive rush and manifestation of gentle and sincere love.