In modern society, men of 30 years in increasing frequency meet and are more senior which were never married, have no children and, the most important, do not want to make family. What moves such people? Let's try to understand.
Why not the young man does not want to marry and does not want to have children? Modern girls ask such question lately rather often. Let's consider two typical options of succession of events and we will try to reveal a problem root.
The man of 30-35 years in the life managed to achieve much in the career plan. It has the apartment or the house, quite good income. He is good itself(himself), is not silly and self-sufficient.
As a rule, such men of deficiency have no female attention. But they do not dare to decide on the serious relations. Or just do not want. Why?
The developed lifestyle. By 30 years the person completely has his daily way of life - habits, values, reference points. To let one more person in the world – to mean to destroy the habitual system or to introduce serious amendments in it. To people with an egoistical note in character to take such step very hardly. At such age to decide on cardinal changes it is necessary at least "to fall in love madly". As a rule, the youthful romanticism by 30 years loses the force and to meet the "eternal love" not so that and simply.
Internal complexes. It is difficult for such men to let in the woman the life or to decide on creation of family because of the underestimated self-assessment. Perhaps, in youth such person had an unfortunate experience of the serious relations which in the psychological plan strongly influenced further formation of its relations. As a rule, such people direct all forces of emotion in achievement of the material purposes, sport, etc., as if proving to themselves and others that it is the best.
The man who is in the long relations with the woman, but actively "resisting" transition to the following step of development – to creation of family. The man does not want children.
Financial fear. The man simply is afraid of the developed stereotype: marriage-child-mortgage-house-work-house. It says about his uncertainty in the forces as future "supporter" of family. He answers questions of creation of family something it seems "Did not earn yet!".
Uncertainty in the partner. Perhaps, the man is not up to the end confident in the choice and hopes at heart that else he will meet that "the only slender, clever beauty who will not exasperate him with quarrels and claims". In that case the woman who is nearby should think seriously, of existence of true feelings of the partner in relation to her or to reconsider the views of your relations.