When the woman is happy in marriage, she has even no thought that the husband can leave family. And if it suddenly occurs – the wife immediately will banish it, having thought: "It can happen to anyone, but only not to me, at us everything is so good!". So why men leave seemingly successful families?
Instruction
1. It was from time immemorial led that in family roles are accurately differentiated: the man – the getter and the supporter, the woman – the keeper of a home. Now quite often the woman makes the main contribution to the family budget. And in this case the man feels strong moral discomfort. He can repeat as much as necessary to himself that times changed that in it there is nothing reprehensible, but will have all the same at heart sense of guilt and disappointment. Such family, alas, is in "a risk zone". And sometimes for a gap enough rash words of the wife, her reproach: "the man, and on a female neck you sit!". The spouse could tell it in a temper, in quick temper and forget immediately. And for the man it will be "last straw".
2. The gap can happen, strangely enough, because of strong love of the wife. If it takes the form of excessive, importunate guardianship. The wife wants as it is better! And sometimes itself does not notice what literally "smothers" the husband the unreasonable care, instructions, instructions, controlling each his step, including at strangers, putting it in frankly awkward situation. Even it can anger the quietest and reserved man really sooner or later.
3. One more reason – spouses cannot reach harmony in intimate life in any way. For example, because of sharp difference in temperaments, in ideas of what is admissible in a bed and that is not present. If, say, the spouse is modest, timid by nature moreover received Puritan education, she, even sincerely loving the husband, can treat sex as to matrimonial duties that does not promote family fortress at all. If in such family the man allocates too much value in the relations for sex, sooner or later it can begin search of satisfaction on the party.
4. Also the discrepancy of tastes, habits can be the reason. For example, the husband loves quiet, quiet evenings in the bosom of the family, the wife does not think of life without noisy parties, adores bringing into the company house. If it is not possible to reach mutually acceptable compromise, to the husband, after all, it will bother to such an extent that he, perhaps, will slam the door.