Why the relations ended, without having begun

Why the relations ended, without having begun

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Happens so that you spent together not enough time, perhaps, only one appointment after which the partner does not want to continue the relations. The reasons for that can be a little - from a banal discrepancy of sympathies to mistakes which were made by you at the first meetings.

We choose, we are chosen

Some people like others, and this another the third sometimes are nice. If you met only once, then it is quite probable that this person just did not appreciate you. All different, and sympathy – it or have tastes, or it is absent. If you "did not hook" on other person, he will not begin to meet you. Here nothing can be made, it is only possible to reconcile. But also it is not necessary to be upset.

If your relations did not manage to begin plainly, then and your feelings are still superficial. The fact that you will not be pleasant to someone – normally. Surely there will be such person for whom you will be an ideal partner. Instead of thinking what is with you not so, just focus on search of that person.

When you find "the" person, it becomes quickly clear why with others it did not develop.

Mistakes

The relations can quickly come to an end for the most banal reasons. Happens that to you the person was nice and you to him, apparently, too. But all the same it did not develop. Perhaps, you made some mistake which just frightened off from you other person. Mistake 1. Too fast rapprochement. You hardly managed to get acquainted as already you make plans how to organize a family dinner that your elect and family members could know each other better. You very much are upset that after the second appointment with you do not want to share the password from VKontakte, close people have nothing to hide from each other! But trust and original proximity – things which not so quickly set in in the relations. Also was struck acquaintance to family, the friends PIN codes from cash cards – at all not very first, than it is worth attending. Remember that everyone needs personal space, you should not interfere too actively in others, otherwise the person will just be frightened. Mistake 2. Imaginations about the future. You shared with the elect that, as you can see your joint future. You will have a cozy apartment in light tones, and children two, the boy and the girl. He at first turned pale, and then told that he will depart to call the friend, but for some reason did not return back. Your future – not what it is worth dreaming in the first days of the relations of is simple. Be not too serious from the first days.

It is possible to discuss imaginations about the future only when you have under legs already strong present when the relations are rather strong.

Mistake 3. Money. You borrowed to the person money, and he told that he will give. But for some reason then did not call back. Finance – very thin and dangerous ice if your relations only begin. Some people trifle of debts, but nevertheless the conscience to them does not allow to meet you and to be your debtor. And it is possible, to the person it is just awkward that he did not give money at once. Happens that girls "borrow" money at young people, at all without planning them to return, considering it is in the order of things. So it is ugly to do. The gift from the guy has to be his initiative, but not the fact before which you put it.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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