Many families quite often experience difficulties. The conflicts between parents and children are often inevitable even in successful families. In terms of psychology it is explained by several reasons.
Disharmonious type of the relations
As well as in all others, the harmony or disharmony can reign in the family relations. In the first case in family the balance which is shown in formation of social roles of family members is observed. The cell is considered as community in which each link is ready to go on compromises to exclude the arisen contradictions.
At the second option all absolutely differently. The disharmonious type of the relations means the constant conflict between the husband and the wife. It affects children, increasing at them uneasiness level. Psychological tension in such family is constant. The conflicts are thrown on younger generation, becoming the systematic reason of contention between close people.
Destructive education
Destructive call the inadequate type of education which is not giving systematic personal development of the child. Because of disagreements on key questions, uncoordinated or inconsistent education there are conflicts between parents and children. The child does not understand that demand from him. Condemnation and threats towards children, restriction of their personal liberty, the increased guardianship — all this lines of destructive education.
Age crises
Age crises at children arise when they enter a transitional phase between various states. The child becomes irritable, breaks rage on people around, is capricious. What before he did implicitly causes in him a revolt now. Such protests often become the cause of the conflicts between parents and children. The period of puberty is considered the most dangerous to relationship in family.
Personal features
If to speak about parents, then such personal features as conservatism, the authoritative principle of education and addictions become the cause of conflict with children often. The last most harmful influences younger generation. Children the behavior cause a conflict situation if have low progress at school, ignore councils of seniors, differ in the high level of egocentrism. Protection of own interests prevails at teenagers over common sense. Therefore they try to prove the point of view in any way. The conflicts between children and parents need timely permission as differently close people can move away from each other. The tightened conflict leads to destruction of communications of family from within.