Each couple at long communication or accommodation together has conflict situations. Otherwise it is possible to call a quarrel deterioration in human relations, subsequently what there is an intense situation, shouts or communication already with increase in a voice. Quarrels can be because of nonsense or for the serious reason.
Conflict situations can sometimes arise if people already before a quarrel are in bad mood or in a negative state after the working day, exhaustion. Also the lack of understanding on the other hand can be the cause of its emergence.
For example, the wife waits from the husband that he after she eats - will wash the dishes and will tidy up from a table, but it does not do it, there can be a conflict. At employment of the wife and at good mood everything will manage, and she it will be able to remove, but otherwise, it seems, a trifle, and the reason or a reason for a quarrel can already appear.
Conflict situations almost constantly are caused emotionally. Sometimes be at strong odds which began with small, offensive or unpleasant phrases like "Can be told at the end I regret that I met you!", "As I in general was able to allow you to become a part of my life?!" Even without noticing, it is possible to state everything boiled and become painful for several years. As a result the discomfort turns out, the mood spoils at both, nerves are shabby, and there are no conclusions, and it is the worst outcome of a quarrel.
Similar situations can occur also at those couples which love each other very strongly. Such quarrels do only harm to the relations, and there are practically no results. It is possible to depart from it differently: within an hour or in several weeks. But, unfortunately, the fact of a quarrel can be shown and after a while. There are certain rules for data of a quarrel to the minimum damage to both.
1. The quarrel if already arose, has to have the powerful reason. In an example it would be possible just to answer: "It is not pleasant to me that you do not wash after yourself the dishes and do not clear the table".
2. At a mutual digression of a quarrel it is better to stop it to do.
3. You should not point out the defects precisely, for example the words "Sloven, Inattentive, Frivolous" because there is a discussion of a problem, but not character of the person.
4. It is worth thinking that if purity is important for one, it can be not especially important for another.
5. Under no circumstances it is impossible to frighten by the short county from the apartment because the trifle can become the cause of a divorce.