Why we love those who are not present nearby

Why we love those who are not present nearby

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Strange phenomenon which, probably, many faced: the feeling of love considerably amplifies when the loving people are in separation. It is that way by means of which you can understand and estimate as far as the person is dear to you and as strongly you love it.

Even the closest people: parents and children, brothers and sisters have own identity and can externally resemble, but to be different in the characters. What to tell about that person with whom you fell in love? Naturally, both of you are two certain, already developed persons, each of which possesses the habits, attachments, hobbies.

Besides, frequency is peculiar to any person: recessions and raising of mood, physical activity and fatigue. All this complicates existence when two loving persons are in continuous contact, see and communicate with each other daily. Of course, this happiness and joy, but there are periods when the person needs to be alone, it is natural to psychology of any.

At lovers mood phases can not coincide therefore there is a dissonance and irritation. When you, for example, want to pogrustit, you expect that your mood will be shared, and your darling is not going to grieve together with you at all. Such difference in behavior leads to mutual misunderstanding – and he not really likes to see your gloomy face. Offenses and quarrels, unwillingness to go on compromises become result of it. Of course, you reconcile, but admit, there are moments when this person seems to you absolutely others, unworthy your love. Quite another matter, when darling is on a trip, and he is not near you. In this case you have nobody even to show your bad mood counting on sympathy, to spend precious minutes of communication by phone or on the Internet for such trifles just silly. All frivolous is forgotten, remains only at once feeling of emptiness which nobody, except it, will be able to fill. And still: it is more difficult to control the one who is not present nearby, you cannot be sure of his love also as when it is with you nearby. The disturbing feeling arises also because men are less emotional, and in his words the alienation can seem to you. Being in natural psychological dependence on darling, you begin to miss, and your love is shown with a new force.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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