Caring for health of the child, parents try to choose at early age for him sports section. But, if future athlete doesn't have relations with his mentor, instead of the expected advantage it can do him harm. It isn't enough to send the child to some section, it is necessary to find for him the good coach who will approach it individually, will try to realize his potential to the maximum.The mentor inspiring him confidence in the forces and if the coach is to it attentive is necessary for the child, then he will go to classes with pleasure. Not superfluous will be to inquire about the coach, to ask acquaintances, to find information in the Internet then to go to get acquainted with the coach personally.
It is worth attending occupation, at first without child just to observe training. Whether to look narrowly with hunting children are engaged whether they are full of enthusiasm, whether the kind atmosphere is created on occupations. During the occupation there shouldn't be the excess noise, the coach who is able to put energy of children on the right track won't allow hubbub during educational process which sports occupation is.
The style of communication of the coach is of very great importance if it humiliates pupils, allows swear words in relation to them, it is better to refuse services of such mentor. The good expert will be able to explain to the pets their task, without resorting to the mat.
If the coach is attentive and moderately strict, it is worth looking narrowly at him. The following step is to talk to parents of pupils of the coach, both to mothers, and to fathers. Mothers will tell about human qualities of the coach, about his character, and fathers – will estimate as the professional.
It is also quite good to talk to other pupils, to ask whether the teacher is pleasant to them, whether often praises them, asks about their health. Very important as they tell about the mentor, with the burning eyes or with bored face.
It is important to learn about sports progress of pupils of the coach interesting you. It is fine if the coach has the large number of medals and sports awards, it will be incentive for child to repeat, and can surpass the mentor.
Now it is necessary to communicate to the coach personally, to ask all interesting questions, to track gestures, the mimicry, to size up, how frankly answers questions. If he is cold and angry at the conversation with parents, then in communication with children will be even less tactful.
When you decided that the coach suits you it is necessary to bring the child on trial occupation, all people different and it is pleasant to communicate with someone, and just don't transfer someone to spirit. It is called human incompatibility. In that case you pass to other coach because with such person the child will never feel comfortable. If everything passed well, the coach whom you as a result considered competent needs to trust further, regularly to communicate with him to be aware of progress of the child and to help with achievement of the common goal – to make the child the healthy and strong person. If the child well contacts to the mentor, it can result in outstanding results. Success of the child in any occupation consists of 2 parts of 20% work of the coach, his knowledge, the correct remarks, abilities to motivate and 80% desire and diligence of the child. When there is the full coincidence of the pupil and teacher, outstanding persons appear.
On the photo on the right: Yip Mang and his pupil Bruce Lee.