How to modern parents to build the relationship with the child? What does the yoga in this respect think?
After the baby is born, mother and the father surround him with permanent care. In the first months of life of the child mother is especially important. Mummy both will feed, and will caress, and will warm.
The father invisibly is present at the child's life, he is very important for the kid, but the kid doesn't understand it yet. We give to the child everything that is required to him at the beginning of life.
Then, when the child will grow up, his view of the world changes. The world to become is wider! Already both the father, and other people appear in the field of vision babies.
At the moment when the kid is capable to realize something and to understand, education begins. Relationship the child parents is built. And here is how to build them in the best way?
The yoga gives the answer to this question. The main recommendation is in that we began to treat the child as the Teacher or the Teacher.
Very much can be that soul of our child came to this world to share the knowledge! It is especially relevant for those parents who in the life use practicians of yoga.
Anyway, such relation is the safe position! The child thanks to it receives freedom in self-expression, freedom in the choice of the vector of the development in own life.
Task of mother and father - to protect him at the beginning from what hazard to life and health of the child can pose. It is no more! We remember that in yoga the main thing is the harmonious approach to everything in our life.
The child will receive the certain degree of "unfreedom" anyway. The yoga considers that the fact that soul was embodied on this light acting through your child, says that you already have certain powers.
Soul of the child delegated to you the right to care for itself till the moment until he is able to do it. Reasonable restrictions will do good to the kid.
Task of parents to learn to treat the child's acts as lessons for itself. All Universe gives us certain lessons through other people. And in the case with own fumes it is especially relevant. Therefore interpret any tricks of the offspring thus as though the Absolute was born at you.
Interesting analogy is traced in religion. Orthodox Jews who live in Israel still wait for the mission! Adherents of Christianity which arose later as the Bible speaks, waited. And those who adhere to Judaic religion still wait!
How it is shown in their life? It is shown concerning parents to the boy who at them was born. Present that the child was born, and him initially treat, as the savior of mankind! Pay to the child special attention. With it are engaged, give lessons of music, drawing. And suddenly it IT?!
Yoga not religion! The yoga is the system of self-knowledge. But the similar situation is traced in Patrimonial yoga. And the attitude towards the kid it as though it was the Teacher or the Teacher.
And indeed actually! What soul wouldn't be born, she all the same will teach you to much. And if this soul will be advanced! Therefore you lose nothing.
We gave above the example with religious features of the attitude towards the child in certain directions. Example as analogy. But there is the essential distinction.
In religion the high relation "deserves" only the boy. In yoga not so! Soul has no floor therefore both the boy, and the girl equally can do much good for our life! And at some schools of yoga, on the contrary, emphasis on girls is placed! It is considered that Teachers have to come!
It will be remarkable if at you to turn out to build up the relationship as an equal! It is relevant for that age of your child when the certain core of consciousness begins to be formed. We build up the relationship with the child accurate, natural and, of course, responsible!
We try to explain to the child what is bad and what is good, but not simply we use the bans! We raise the conscious personality! And the earlier we will understand it, the it will be better for all family members.
Our task, it to make friends with the kid! Then he will trust you, to share what pleases him and disturbs. And he will reasonably make the decisions. All this isn't simple, but it is possible. And it is very important!