Not always everything manages to be made as there is a wish. Not it is possible to agree with all only on the conditions. Somewhere it is necessary to concede, restrain itself in something. Usually people call it "to make a compromise".
The word "compromise" comes from the Latin compromissum meaning consent or the agreement. T.e the compromise can be described as achievement of mutual understanding thanks to concessions on both sides. Though not everyone uses this word, all people should make a compromise very often practically, and is that even not once in a day.
The reasons for which people make a compromise
Without making a compromise, it is almost impossible to live in society and to cooperate with each other. There are some reasons why people are ready to make a compromise in some specific situation:
- for the sake of reconciliation of the parties; - in case the points of view absolutely differ, but both parties are interested in preservation of the relations;
- if to make a compromise much more reasonably, than to insist on the; - if there are no other options.
Whether it is necessary to make a compromise?
It is rather controversial issue for many people. Someone considers quite normal to concede to someone in something, at the same time having kept the peace relations. Others believe that it is better to lose these peace relations, but to a last straw to argue the point of view. Everything depends on character of the person. The first category of people are rather soft and compliant. The second are rather proud and ambitious. What if do people do not make a compromise? It is possible to consider it on a specific situation. Parents, releasing the child to walk, limit him in time. They decide that he has to come at 22:00. The child categorically does not agree with it and says that he will come at 23:00. Parents consider that too late. Here the conflict is about to happen. If both parties do not make a compromise, the world in this family will be undermined and, in general, this story will end can not in the best way. Much more effectively in such situation to both parties to make a compromise. Perhaps, it will be that the child can come at 22:30. In that case both parents, and the child will be satisfied with such decision. Both parties took part in its acceptance. Practically in each situation it is wiser to make a compromise, than to insist on the. The compromise helps to save time, forces and also nervous cages. It is possible to prove for hours the case and to leave as a result with anything. And it is possible to spend a little time for finding of the decision which would suit both parties. And still it is much more pleasant to all to deal with the compliant people ready to adapt. It causes respect and desire to communicate. And there is always a wish to pay back them with the same and too in something to make for them concessions. A compromise – guarantee of long relationship.