It seems to much of us that shyness, the uncertainty and modesty spoil life and do not allow to achieve desirable results. Here if to be gathered impudence that, running roughshod over other's feelings, surely it will be possible to achieve everything conceived. How to become impudent – a question, having answered which, in life the string of good luck will begin. The problem is only that the majority confuses concepts of self-confidence and commitment with impudence. The first two traits of character help the person to estimate adequately the opportunities and advantages, to hold a high level of self-development, to go towards a goal, passing obstacles, but at the same time, not to lose moral human shape. According to psychoanalysts, impudence is nothing else as attempt of the person to hide uncertainty, own moral and intellectual lameness behind an affected impudent mask and not always adequate acts, thus, to distract attention of an environment from true qualities.
How to become impudent and self-assured?
We understood already a little that distinguishes impudence from self-confidence, in fact it is qualities, opposite on value. To understand a difference yavnost, it is worth remembering what feelings are caused by the people having confidence and frankly impudent individuals. Communicating with the person self-assured, with feeling of own importance, there is a delight how the person of appreciates, is able to present unostentatiously the advantages and what it managed to achieve, but at the same time does not put the importance of the interlocutor and his potential under doubts. At the same time, communication with the impudent, persuasive interlocutor who does not allow to squeeze a word and constantly lets know that it is a master of the situation, hinting at negligibility of the others and unwillingness to reckon with their feelings, is capable to cause only irritation and aggression. Perhaps, development of self-confidence, than acquisition of skills of impudence will become the best option.
How to become a little more impudent?
If the difference is clear, but desire become is more impudent nevertheless remained – it is possible to use method which is practiced by stage and film actors. It consists in ability to try on on itself(himself) a mask of impudence and to correspond to it. At the right time present yourself in a mask, removing sensuality, sympathy, feeling of a step aside and be persistent.
Making attempts to be impudent, it is worth remembering that moment that such people are not really loved and try to avoid communication with them.
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