There are women who prefer to be on friendly terms more with men, than with other women. But such it is not enough. It is much more than women who drive friendship both with girlfriends, and with male fellow.
Why there is a friendship of the woman with the man
One of the reasons of friendship of the woman with the man is that females prefer to have more males slowly to choose from them the best. It is the instinctive program put in mankind by the millennia of its existence. Many of female persons even after, at last, choose the best, according to them, the man, after all leave several spare options, - just in case. For an insurance from possible failures. In this case the only way to hold spare options is to maintain the friendly relations with them.
Those who on any did not undergo selection can refuse. But women usually try to refuse softer form if the situation does not force it to give refusal rudely. Men by the nature either do not perceive often soft refusals, or do not understand.
The situation at which the man continues to look after actively the woman results, to do it courtesies, to give gifts, to help in life, and it becomes favorable to woman to accept all this, without giving anything in exchange. In fact, the girl promised only friendship, and the guy, deceiving herself, hopes for something.
In more patriarchal communities the friendship between women and men happens extremely seldom as women in such communities marry seriously and for a long time. And after the wedding of the rule force them to stop any relationship with foreign men. And to men is not permitted to stare at foreign wives.
Benefits from friendship between men and women
It is favorable to women to be on friendly terms with men for various reasons:
- To be cried to the friend in a vest when except understanding, a consolation and support real participation in the solution of problems is necessary. And it, in most cases, can be received from the man.
- To receive an economic benefit as most of men are better adapted for getting of money from the man. To go to night club or to restaurant at the expense of the friend, to receive from it a gift, etc.
- To receive from men the help in the household plan as men instinctively pulls to support the nice woman in the solution of problems. To women to refuse such help simply silly.
- To satisfy the social needs for communication with as it is possible a large number of people, to satisfy the emotional requirements from this communication.
Men in friendship with the woman are present no benefits. In any case, the volume of positive benefits quite often will be less than the volume of costs. But if desired the man can benefit too:
- To do nothing the sprost. At least, after the nourishing dinner made by the girlfriend and a glass - other whisky.
- If the woman is financially secure, to receive some financial benefits, to receive gifts.
- To strike up through it a set of useful acquaintances. Including to meet her girlfriends among whom it is possible to find more favorable option.
- The feeling of love to the inaccessible woman inspires many men to take care of the own life: to pump up muscles, to get an education, to create business with good income, etc.
Whether friendship can pass into more serious relations
Probability that the friendly relations between the man and the woman will develop into romantic is, but there is it extremely seldom. In most cases for the reason that the woman gets used that the male who is near her – just a friend and intimate relationship with it causes in it feeling of disgust.
In some cases there are friendly relations between persons of different floors at which there is also a sex. But, as a rule, sex without obligations, and only for satisfaction of physiological requirements. If the woman is interested to hold the man as the friend, then sex can be in the way to hold a male on a short and strong lead.
True friendship between women and men
The real friendly relationship between beings of different floors it is possible only in cases when to both of them or one of them it is far for thirty.
The first option – when the man and the woman are absolutely uninteresting each other in the intimate plan. When both of them have normal sexual relations out of friendship (in marriage, for example) and do not look for sexual adventures somewhere else when both of them are asexual or homosexual (the gay + the lesbian) persons.
The second option – when the man and the woman have the general interests and joint benefit from occupations in the hobbies. For example, both are fond of parachute jumps: to go together on jumps always cheaper, than one by one, it is possible to get various useful tips on equipment and so on. The joint hobby happens stronger base for friendship, than hope of a male for sex.
The third option – when between the man and the woman a considerable age difference or both of them are already rather elderly people. That is or at once to both sex is not necessary to one of them for a long time.
The fourth option – if the guy and the girl are familiar from children's age and the relation from this age developed purely friendly. In this case both of them perceive each other as the brother and the sister and thoughts of intim do not even arise.
The fifth option – friendship on correspondence. In the 21st century it can be corresponded and at the computer on the Internet. In such cases the sex of the interlocutor has no value.
The sixth option – very strong relations in which the friend and the girlfriend do not even try to manipulate with each other. In which the man and the woman respect and love each other. Provided that both of them have brains, there is a normal sex out of friendship and there is no consumer relation to each other. Here in this case they are capable of disinterested mutual aid, discussion among themselves of guys and girls with mutual councils, of a mutual consolation and support in negative situations.