Parents of disobedient children know what is whims, hysterics, unpleasant surprises. Their kids do not give them the chance to quietly spend evening at the TV. It is possible to expect a dirty trick any minute from them. Not easy happens to find approach to such children.
Instruction
1. There are children differing in hyperactivity. Nearly an every minute they are busy with something. As a rule, it is some mischief. The broken vases or neighbour's windows, the punched noses and bruises on a lap happen a consequence of it.
2. Do not think that repulses of the child a belt, you solve a problem. Violence it is impossible to achieve good results. Children who are punished physically only become reserved and behave outrageously even more to spite of parents.
3. The child has to understand what he is punished for what he was guilty of. Therefore it is impossible to snatch on it with shouts. Talk to it. Explain why you are dissatisfied with his behavior.
4. But punishment nevertheless has to be. It is impossible to pretend that nothing occurred. Do not allow children to feel permissiveness. Do not indulge them.
5. It is possible to punish, having deprived for the period of in what he likes to be engaged. For example, computer games or walks with friends. In advance tell the child for what time you punish him. Be unshakable, do not follow the tastes his tears and requests. Subsequently he will be able to expect what results will have his mischief or a hysterics.
6. Learn to talk to children as adults. Charge them some chores. For example, they will have to walk every day with a dog or take out garbage. Cultivate in them responsibility.
7. You watch that they removed every day the toys and clothes. Do not give in to arrangements that it can be made and tomorrow.
8. Accustom children to a day regimen. They precisely have to know in what time it is necessary to go to bed and when to do homework.
9. Write down the child in sports section or a circle. Then all energy will be directed to creation, but not to permission. And there will be no free time left on mischief.
10. Accustom to be respectful respect for adults. Do not allow them to exchange words and shout. Stop roughness in relation to seniors at once.
11. Agree with the spouse, grandmothers and grandfathers that you will act together. Do not discuss the made decisions someone from adult family members.