The mentality of the child at any age is very vulnerable. Stresses, fears, negative manifestations of surrounding life have negative impact on formation of its mental state, its character.
Problems in family
The family is that basis on which all life of the child is under construction. Among themselves and children depends on the interpersonal relations of parents as the model of family behavior at the child will be created.
Parents have to consider that the child studies communication at them. Parents give an example of behavior for the child. Respectively, if mom and dad constantly swear, call each other, fight, then the child perceives it as norm of communication in family. At the same time such relations of parents apply an irreparable trauma on children's mentality.
In the future family the child will begin to build the same relationship what he observed in the childhood. Hearing curses from the father and mother, he in this way will begin to talk to the children.
The attitude of parents towards the son or the daughter also is of great importance for their development. If mom or dad shout at the child, using swear words, then it leads to formation of the killed identity of the kid. Subsequently it will be difficult to believe in the opportunities, he will grow up the mentally unstable person. If in family two and more child, the attitude of parents towards them have to be identical. Otherwise that child to whom less attention is expressed feels defective, "wrong". He tries to deserve love of adults. Without having achieved it, he begins to feel rage for parents and other children. In many years such negative relation will be very difficult to be broken.
Other problems
Negative attitude of surrounding people to it can injure mentality of the child. It can be peers in kindergarten or school, teachers, neighbors. Parents have to trace a circle of contacts of the child.
Become the friend for the kid. So you have an opportunity to control its relationship.
How the tutor or the class teacher will build interpersonal communications of children in group is important. He needs to stop damage of one child other children. The inaction of the adult leads to violation of mentality of the persecuted child, it can entail terrible consequences. Besides, other children acquire that thus they can receive undeserved superiority. When the child is at heart a leader, he will seek unconsciously for leadership in group of children. If it does not occur, the child can have behavior stereotype withdrawal pains. To endure such moment, it will be needs the help of adults.